What do men really think of short, curvy women?

I feel so self-conscious when I walk around because my body is so different from what's supposed to be hot. My measurements are 36-30-40 and I'm only 5ft 4" so I look squashed and round. I'm slightly pear-shaped and a put on most of weight around my butt. I also have annoyingly thick upper arms which I wish were skinny. My butt is big and round and I wish it was a lot smaller but it won't get that way because I seem to put all my weight on there. I have a slightly bigger bone structure than most women and I'm not fat, it's just that I can't change the shape of my body. I see skinnier women with curves and wish I looked like them. I love having my curves but I just wish I didn't have to be short and with such a big butt at the same time.

One of my best guy friends commented to someone else (who told me about it later) that he thinks I'm "really pretty but a little bit big set"...and it was little bit upsetting to hear that. In my relationship my ex didn't want to have sex with me for 5 months...I didn't gain weight or anything like that but it made me feel really unappealing.

Also like a girl who's small enough to 'throw around a bit' from time to time

If you're really bothered about being 'big set' then, as one of the lifting hombres would no doubt say: 'get down the gym and start doing squats', or w/e the advice is

I'm actually sooo jealous of you ! you sound like the perfect shape you have boobs and a bum your a great height! God be proud of it , im only a size 4 (not through personal choice I just cant put on weight even though I eat like a horse!) I have Cup size B boobs and a pretty flat bum, I cant wear bodycon dresses as my hips stick out, and I cant wear low cut t shirts as I have no boobs to fill them out, I have to live in leggins as Jeans dont fit, and I cant wear strapless as I have no boobs to hold them up! Defo be proud of what you have!

I feel so self-conscious when I walk around because my body is so different from what's supposed to be hot. My measurements are 36-30-40 and I'm only 5ft 4" so I look squashed and round. I'm slightly pear-shaped and a put on most of weight around my butt. I also have annoyingly thick upper arms which I wish were skinny. My butt is big and round and I wish it was a lot smaller but it won't get that way because I seem to put all my weight on there. I have a slightly bigger bone structure than most women and I'm not fat, it's just that I can't change the shape of my body. I see skinnier women with curves and wish I looked like them. I love having my curves but I just wish I didn't have to be short and with such a big butt at the same time.

One of my best guy friends commented to someone else (who told me about it later) that he thinks I'm "really pretty but a little bit big set"...and it was little bit upsetting to hear that. In my relationship my ex didn't want to have sex with me for 5 months...I didn't gain weight or anything like that but it made me feel really unappealing.

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I'm actually sooo jealous of you ! you sound like the perfect shape you have boobs and a bum your a great height! God be proud of it , im only a size 4 (not through personal choice I just cant put on weight even though I eat like a horse!) I have Cup size B boobs and a pretty flat bum, I cant wear bodycon dresses as my hips stick out, and I cant wear low cut t shirts as I have no boobs to fill them out, I have to live in leggins as Jeans dont fit, and I cant wear strapless as I have no boobs to hold them up! Defo be proud of what you have!

You need to stop beating yourself up over it since it doesn't sound like your figure is unappealing in the least.

I thought big butts were in and considered hot these days anyways? Sounds like you're bang on trend.

I would .

I mean... er... what?

I'm confused. What do you mean?

very nice body do ou not have 1 of your face?