[SciFiRory]

(Original post by Phoenix07)
I was considering asking the uni for help, but worried that because I haven't mentioned it at any other point they are going to think that I am just making it up to get an extension or something :/

they shouldn't do, but if you are worried then maybe speak to the GP as well? the Uni should be pretty understand, a lot of students have mental health issues so they normally have support staff who are there to help people in that situation I hope they are able to help you out and that you are able to get things sorted

[Wheek]

(Original post by Phoenix07)
Yer christmas is a lot worse then easter, and I went home at the weekend so I have got lots of easter eggs (well had lots ) but nooo things being on offer and reduced is a very logical reason to stock up on them, I do it all the time! Feeling so awful about eating it all at the moment! Just got to try and resist the rest of the food though, but nah putting food in the bin never seems to be an option!

Thinking of christmas made me realise that I did a similar thing christmas week but managed to get back on top of my eating afterwards. Think I will have to dig out my distraction list and start going through it again. I am setting a goal of not eating the second cake before 8pm and shall go dig out my nail varnish and face mask stuff and nosey round the forum to distract myself until then

[laut_biru]

Oh god I am a forgetful useless person at times.

Bullettheory asked me to let you guys know he's gone into hospital, and will be fine.

If any of you guys don't have a way of contacting him, I'll pass any messages on.

[Phoenix07]

(Original post by SciFiBoy)
they shouldn't do, but if you are worried then maybe speak to the GP as well? the Uni should be pretty understand, a lot of students have mental health issues so they normally have support staff who are there to help people in that situation I hope they are able to help you out and that you are able to get things sorted

Yer well I will see how it goes I guess ... thanks for the advice though hun

(Original post by Wheek)
Thinking of christmas made me realise that I did a similar thing christmas week but managed to get back on top of my eating afterwards. Think I will have to dig out my distraction list and start going through it again. I am setting a goal of not eating the second cake before 8pm and shall go dig out my nail varnish and face mask stuff and nosey round the forum to distract myself until then

sounds like a good idea, I am trying to do the same, lots of solitaire is the answer for me! Keeps my hands busy so its harder to eat constantly Hope the distractions work though and you manage to get back on top of things!

[Wheek]

(Original post by Phoenix07)
sounds like a good idea, I am trying to do the same, lots of solitaire is the answer for me! Keeps my hands busy so its harder to eat constantly Hope the distractions work though and you manage to get back on top of things!

Thanks. I hope the solitaire works for you too. I paint my nails cos then its hard to eat with wet nail varnish

[Anonymous]

Easter has been less stressful than I thought it would be I think. It was a bit rubbish seeing my grandad upset but apart from that it was good. He really need to go into a home or sheltered accommodation at the least but he's so stubborn. There's going to come a time when he falls at home and not be able to get help.

Hope everybody has had a good day.

[ViceVersa]

(Original post by SciFiBoy)
what's wrong?

Life, and I see only one way to fix it

[Aemiliana]

(Original post by ViceVersa)
Life, and I see only one way to fix it

Things will get better, just stay strong.

[ViceVersa]

(Original post by Aemiliana)
Things will get better, just stay strong.

Thank you

[Noodlzzz]

Has anyone else experienced therapists asking about your sex life? Or is this just me who finds it totally weird conversation topic to have with professionals?

[Loveuraliens]

oh, yeah, back here again feeling terrible :/. Spending eastern with my parents here, and i just feel like the failure kid.
I really don`t know why my mood is so low, since I am on new medication and everything.

[rmhumphries]

(Original post by laut_biru)
Oh god I am a forgetful useless person at times.

Bullettheory asked me to let you guys know he's gone into hospital, and will be fine.

If any of you guys don't have a way of contacting him, I'll pass any messages on.

Hope he is {relatively} ok, and will be able to get out (well) soon

[laut_biru]

(Original post by rmhumphries)
Hope he is {relatively} ok, and will be able to get out (well) soon

Well, he's safe, you know?

It's voluntary, so he has the right to self-discharge, but I think he's planning on staying put for the time being.

[ParadoxSocks]

(Original post by laut_biru)
Well, he's safe, you know?

It's voluntary, so he has the right to self-discharge, but I think he's planning on staying put for the time being.

Send him our love? Yay for him making the decision to keep himself safe. That's pretty awesome of him

[laut_biru]

(Original post by ParadoxSocks)
Send him our love? Yay for him making the decision to keep himself safe. That's pretty awesome of him

Course I will.

Yeah, tis pretty ****ing awesome.

[FuzzySheep]

I'm so angry right now, don't know whether I want to cry or punch something

[ViceVersa]

(Original post by FuzzySheep)
I'm so angry right now, don't know whether I want to cry or punch something

Talk to me?

[FuzzySheep]

(Original post by ViceVersa)
Talk to me?

I just keep remembering things from the past and remembering them vividly, I feel angry at the people who took advantage and I feel angry at myself for being so weak and not being able to stop thinking. The one person that says they love me is the one that makes me despise myself. But I'm so stupid and weak that I won't do anything about it, because I'm nothing in the end. I don't know if I hate myself or him more. Urgh.

How are you doing?

[Phoenix07]

(Original post by Wheek)
Thanks. I hope the solitaire works for you too. I paint my nails cos then its hard to eat with wet nail varnish

I used to love painting my nails, was so calming .... but I bite my nails to much now so I can't anymore

[ViceVersa]

(Original post by FuzzySheep)
I just keep remembering things from the past and remembering them vividly, I feel angry at the people who took advantage and I feel angry at myself for being so weak and not being able to stop thinking. The one person that says they love me is the one that makes me despise myself. But I'm so stupid and weak that I won't do anything about it, because I'm nothing in the end. I don't know if I hate myself or him more. Urgh.

How are you doing?

Oh hun

I understand those feelings very well But remember that not any of it is your fault, you're one of the most amazing people I've ever spoken to in all my existence and you don't deserve any of that. It's hard to forget, but try and be easy on yourself, you have no reason to hate yourself. If you wish to elaborate you can PM me or text me about it, I'm always here. Just be easy on yourself

I'm a little empty now, but reaching the point where I don't see the point of trying anymore.