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Quote from a close female friend of mine; "If she knows how to turn a laptop on and use Facebook, she will watch porn".
How can you find other members of your species sexually attractive but not be interested in porn?
Big contradiction, unless someone who doesn't watch porn but is sexually active can explain why porn doesn't interest them.
I'm a sexually active female and I don't watch porn. I have seen it but never had before I met my boyfriend who wanted to see what I'd make of it. Maybe if there was like, a normal film which had a sex scene in it (like porn, not like normal sex scenes where you can't see anything) I'd like that because I actually cared about the characters. I just don't care if it's two random people. It just all seems to be close-ups of genitals which I don't really find arousing.
(Original post by Wilfred Little)
Nobody is denying that but the fact you can be aroused by sexual contact means you are a sexual being and sexual beings are aroused by many aspects of sex, one of which is visual. Are you saying to me you're not aroused until the penis is actually inside your vagina? You don't see men in the street who you find attractive and be turned on by them or how they look?
You can't say 'the real thing's better' and expect that to make any sense. You're contradicting yourself, if you aren't turned on by porn I would expect you to not be turned on when you have sex too.
You're embarrassed to admit you watch it. My ex claimed she didn't like porn or didn't watch it as 'having sex and watching sex' are two different things yet I later found out she was going on webcam and watching her ex toss himself off to which she also masturbated for him.
Conclusion: You're lying.
I'd just like to say, being someone that has watched porn and not found it very arousing like I do with the real thing. It's not looking at my boyfriend that turns me on, it's all the kissing, and touching that goes on. I don't like porn, where as the real deal. I love it.