Dear You...
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Re: Dear You...
Dear You,
It's funny how you can make my world change so rapidly. I convinced myself that this wasn't going to happen again, and I know that you probably don't even care and that you don't even think that way. But the sad truth is, that it did happen again, and I can't take it back. I can't take back any of those feelings because they've already happened, and they've manifested themselves within me and now, I just feel strange.
You've had that uncanny ability to annoy me at the same time as pleasing me ever since I first laid eyes on you. I still think you're one of the most stupidly arrogant and annoying people around, but at the same time, I can't help but notice all the amazingly brilliant things you do.
Being described as an 'old married couple' several times might have put ideas into my head, but you know, those awkward laughs and those tearful rants maybe mean something that I'll never ever have the guts to say to you, even though you know it already.
So I guess I'll just have to keep quiet despite the fact that everyone else has admitted it, but has fallen silent until I say it myself. Strange, huh?
A Confused,
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Re: Dear You...
Dear You,
You might find it absurd that, despite knowing you know I feel that way, I know that you might feel that way about that person too and so I've taken a back seat. BUT WHY? Because I know it's never going to happen so I just outwardly gave up but really, I don't want to, and I regret telling you to go for it because now I feel like a fool.
So yeah.
I wish I was less willing to let you be content even though sometimes, I think you're an utter bitch and need to get a grip of yourself.
No thanks,
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Dear you,
I miss you already, but in a way I'm glad I'm moving out of the country because it means I won't have to watch you fawn over her. You say you don't 'like' her, you refuse to ask her out and you flirt with me, but then as soon as you see her I don't exist. Yes I'm jealous, but I'm also confused, not that you don't like me, I can understand that, but that you like her. She is manipulative, fake, she slept with one of you mates and blamed it on her bestfriend to her then boyfriend, and so stupid that the whole room facepalms when she opens her mouth. I hope you wake up and find a nice girlfriend so that I can get over you.
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Dear You,
Was that a spark last week? I don't know, I honestly don't know what it feels like. You're cute, adorable, interesting, but I'm deeply afraid that all I feel might be a facade, a delayed reaction from my time with *her* that makes me want to latch on to the nearest girl.
I really don't want to mess you around. I hope I love you. See you Friday x.
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Dear You.
I'm in utter shock. I was hoping to see you after exams, to say thank you for all the help you gave me, to speak to you, laugh with you, and just enjoy your company. But now I'm never going to be able to see you again. Why did you act like nothing was wrong? Why did you say there's all these treatments you can try which can make everything okay? Why did it feel like you were completely fine, and then out of the blue, bam. You're gone. Never to hear me again.
I'm sincerely sorry, if I've ever done anything to upset you, please forgive me. I hope you rest in peace.
All my love.
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This sounds like a very sad ending on all counts. Hope your able to move on. Good luck with your results.(Original post by Anonymous)
Dear You.
I'm in utter shock. I was hoping to see you after exams, to say thank you for all the help you gave me, to speak to you, laugh with you, and just enjoy your company. But now I'm never going to be able to see you again. Why did you act like nothing was wrong? Why did you say there's all these treatments you can try which can make everything okay? Why did it feel like you were completely fine, and then out of the blue, bam. You're gone. Never to hear me again.
I'm sincerely sorry, if I've ever done anything to upset you, please forgive me. I hope you rest in peace.
All my love.
Me.
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Dear You
You think your heart is broken because someone changed their mind a couple of times about wanting to date you. You think this is what real pain is. You cry so hard and so loud and everyone just feels so sorry for you.
My best friend died horribly and unexpectedly at 19 years old. I had to leave everyone who ever knew her or anything about me 300 miles away. the same month the one person for years I had truly thought was my ever after left me because I was just too upset by it all and he didn't want to deal with it. I hold my head up and try to be strong. and everyone passes me by.
I don't wan't the pity and attention you get, I just wish everyone would stop legitimising your petty bull**** by being taken in by it.
I hate that I feel so righteous. I wish it didn't make me so angry. I know you are free to feel how you feel and pain isn't directly proportional to what caused it. But It just makes me so angry. I wish I could let go. -
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Dear You,
I'm not being nice to you because I like you, or because I have forgotten the things you did. I'm being nice because I don't want to feel bitter forever, and also because I feel obliged to, because you don't have many other people in your life. Your refusal to even so much as apologise to me (even after that long conversation in which I poured my heart out to you!) still hurts, and there are times when I still consider cutting you out of my life. But I hope I won't, because I want to be the kind of person who is able to be civil and polite, even when I feel like being spiteful and brutally honest. I don't think I will ever be able to respect you again, and I have resigned myself to the fact that you will probably always be someone who takes but doesn't give.
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Dear you,
You probably have had some hints that I like you. Well, sometimes I just want to say it to you that you meant so much to me... well, I am scared of making the same mistake again.
You have so many things in common with him. I told him he meant so much to me. He laughed it off and walked away!
You are a different person but well, you are a guy and you are a human. People tend to take others for granted if they know they mean so much for the other... I am not an exception I have to say...
I just hope these 5 years in this med school go quickly. When we all get more mature in the next 5 years and we still can maintain our friendship, I hope I could trust you more as a mature guy who will not take me for granted if you know you mean so much to me...
You told me you never thought you were in my close friend list. I never told you that you were or not... You know what I am scared of one day I need to remove you from my list myself...
So yes, you are in my close friend list and you have always been ever since... How could you think I just consider you as a normal friend? Dear my silly and simply guy friend, I hope you understand that some day soon...
I will miss you for the next 3 months
I am waiting to see you again in Sept as I like you x
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Dear You,
Me again. I know, I know. You're probably fed up of me now.
I just don't know what to do anymore. You're the only reason I haven't killed myself yet, I think. You made me promise I wouldn't but I have no reason to keep that promise apart from the fact that I love you, so completely and utterly. I wish I had the strength to do this without you but I can't. I know I'm driving you away, and I know I never really had you to begin with.
I love you, you're my everything. I just wish you were my something.
Love, Me. x -
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Dear You,
Did you notice me today? Would you have realised how much thought I put into my appearance and actions in the hope that you would notice me?
Did you see how I bantered and laughed with your colleagues? Would you have realised it was just an act to get your attention?
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Dear you,
I picked up my fone so many times today and wanted to text you... I wanted to hear your voice and I wanted to have the nervous feeling from waiting for your replies...
I cant anymore as I need to force myself not to become clingy.... Well, I dont know I have been fighting with my own feelings for a while... I thought I won but I actually never...
I just told my feelings to go away for one day and then another day and another day....
I believe that this world is very small so if we are meant to be together, then I will be forced to face it soon... I know but I just cannot get up to make that day come a bit earlier...
I just want to write this down so I know that I have always missing you....
My love,
Me -
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Dear You,
I have to keep finding indirect ways to talk to you....Why dont you care? I loved you and I still do. I would have done anything for you...it hurts so badly and I hate you so much and I want you here to put your arms around me and make me feel safe again. I'm so angry at you for doing this to us...after everything, you lying horrible piece of scum why did you do this to us? Why?! Why don't you care
I feels like I'm dying when I see how much you don't care . I'm so angry at you. After everything we've been through...why would you do this to us.
You tricked me
how could you, i will never forgive you. i love you.
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Dear you,
I hate that you put yourself in a situation you knew you would regret later. I hate how you didn't listen to me when I tried to warn you and now you can't be with the one you want to be with.
As the day you were dreading is approaching, I hope you won't get hurt especially with your friends and family being away.
Know that I'm here for you when you need me, even though I can't stand what you are doing.
Love Me
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Dear You,
I started uni the first time round when I was completely not ready and be unsettled in an area I did not know properly. I then met a guy a few months into uni who wasn't my type but we got along quite well, shame he lived an hour away, he visited regularly though. I collapsed in the library and then later found out that I had a medical condition. I then failed uni and contracted a viral infection in which I stayed in hospital for two days and had to move back to Birmingham to live with my parents. I felt so defeated but I was determined to get better. I had physio on my left hand to repair the nerve damage on my left hand and recover. I wanted to go back to university, I knew I could it, so I started looking at courses and areas to live in. I did some volunteering and short courses, I saw you again and you told me I was fat, I told you I was recovering from yet another infection and I didn't need you. In 2010 I got accepted back into university and completed my foundation degree with a merit, people was expecting to fail but I always have guts, determination and ambition. Who can believe that in September that I will be a final year student because I can't.
Keep proving people wrong
Lots of love and positivity me xx
I am waiting to see you again in Sept as I like you x
