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  1. easyaspie's Avatar
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    Help! How to move on....
    I feel like **** all the time, I still love someone I met over the summer.
    I thought I would get over her, but it has been 5 months
    I used to be so happy, you know smiling, making jokes, focused on work.

    And now I just feel like death, I sometimes think of suicide and I know I won't it's just I've never felt like this bad before.

    She has moved on, and it didn't take her freaking long. Like since freshers week, shes been sleeping with this guy, which apparently 'nothing happened' with!

    I haven't really spoke about it much and when I have people say 'find a rebound' or something and the fact is I only want her.
    I just hate how she probably doesn't think about me at all, and I can't stop. :mad:

    Arghh
    please some advice on moving on, would be appreciated.
  2. Cyclo's Avatar
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    Re: Help! How to move on....
    (Original post by easyaspie)
    I feel like **** all the time, I still love someone I met over the summer.
    I thought I would get over her, but it has been 5 months
    I used to be so happy, you know smiling, making jokes, focused on work.

    And now I just feel like death, I sometimes think of suicide and I know I won't it's just I've never felt like this bad before.

    She has moved on, and it didn't take her freaking long. Like since freshers week, shes been sleeping with this guy, which apparently 'nothing happened' with!

    I haven't really spoke about it much and when I have people say 'find a rebound' or something and the fact is I only want her.
    I just hate how she probably doesn't think about me at all, and I can't stop. :mad:

    Arghh
    please some advice on moving on, would be appreciated.
    I understand how you feel. It is crippling if you continue let it dominate your life. Just ask yourself one question... Why waste time thinking and caring about someone who does not feel the same way about me.

    It is particularly difficult if you still have to see her, but she isn't the right one. In the not too distant future you'll find another girl that will take up all your time. If you try and see it like that then no matter how important it may appear that she is to you, in reality, she is just one of many girls that you'll meet in life.

    Chin up. Many guys have been through the same thing.
  3. PraxxtorCruel's Avatar
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    Re: Help! How to move on....
    Best Method of revenge:

    Find yourself a new girlfriend ASAP, she'll start to feel the same way as you do as soon as she sees you with a new GAL in your life.
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