wooow, that is some dilemma! yeah you did get raped- im sorry to hear about it, i would stop getting in contact with that person and try as hard as possible to forget about it! :/ take a holiday with some friends, somewhere relaxing?
Last edited by K_12; 04-03-2012 at 00:10.
I think you're going to find it difficult to prove rape. I once saw a movie about a rape trial, where the facts were very similar to this. The man was found not guilty. The problem is that once you initiated sex and you were in a drunken state, it is difficult for you to prove that you revoked your consent.
Last edited by Playa10; 04-03-2012 at 00:39.
OP, so sorry to hear that this happened to you.
As things stand you can contact the police and get them to bring the bloke who did this to trial. Or let it go and know what to look out for next time.
Also, without sounding preachy, try not to get too drunk on a night out. If you end up going home with a guy for a one-night stand, make sure you are in control of the situation and that he stops when you tell him to; you're not in control at all when you're trolleyed, especially if he isn't drunk.
Again, I'm so sorry that this has happened to you.
Last edited by hughcapet; 04-03-2012 at 01:26.