He always wanted sex now he doesnt even come near me? why?

There is everything wrong with getting it fro the side, it's called being a dirty cheating unfaithful little ****.

Everytime you have sex with one of your little willing sluts, there's a chance of pregnancy, no contraception is 100% reliable.

Everytime a girl has sex with you shes saying "yeah sure i'll risk the next 18 years of my life after you've so patiently waited for 3 whole dates", "yeah sure i'll risk the potential trauma of an abortion because you'll have already moved on to the next girl"

3 dates, or even 1 month is hardly the right relationship for the upbringing of a child, hell after 1 month i doubt a woman would even mention it, not that you'd care.

I know that if i was to fall pregnant now, i could sit down and have a conversation with my partner, we would talk through our options and find something we agree on.

can you, hand on heart, say the same thing about EVERY SINGLE one of your sexual partners? no you can just toddle off and say "not my problem."

that is why some girls want to wait, to make sure the guy isnt just going to run off at the first sign of a problem.

you're a misogynist, you dont give girls the respect they deserve, you dont give girls ANY respect for that matter unless they open theiy legs for you.

Who promise you anything so that you call them cheat? Huh? You make us feel bad because we have casual sex? You are upset that we don't just stick around with you babe?

Stuck-up bitch, which kind of contraception that gurantess 100% percent of non-pregnancy? Except for vasectomy?

Never have a chick who is pregnant before, ever!

Sorry, how does it take to create a baby?

I am gonna tell any bitch who have false pregnancy to come right back with a DNA test when the child is out, trust me on this!None of them have babies, understand?

Maybe you

You are just a stuck-up bitch, that's who you are!

If my boyfriend was to have sex with someone else? yes i'd be upset...its called monogamy, i do infact expect my partners to stay faithful to me just as i do to them. Babe.

Natural healing means that even a vasectomy can fail, the point is that even when using contraception you have to acknowledge the risk of pregnancy which is a fairly good reason to hold off for a bit.

So because you yourself and you alone have never (to your knowledge) got anyone pregnant every other male is going to be as fortunate? your still risking it. All it takes is one time.

I was talking about the length of time needed to create a strong enough relationship in which to create a family, not an embryo.

That's not answering my question, i asked if, in the event of an accident, you could honestly hand on heart sit down and talk rationally and comfortably with the woman and come to a mutual agreement about how to handle it. Could she rely on you to be there if she chose to keep it? could she rely on you to contribute towards its finacially?

If no, you shouldn't be having sex. but its okay for you because you have the penis, you dont have to carry a child for 9 months, look after it for it's whole life, so you can just toddle off and stick your dick in someone else right?

Yes, maybe me, and maybe any other female that also realises she could lose the next 18 years of her life because she felt she had no choice but to sleep with a misogynisyic cock just to keep him happy.

I'm a young adult who recognises the need to think things through before hopping into bed with an almost-stranger, especially one who wont even give a girl the time of day unless she drops her knickers within the first month

Some people are saying that girls prefer to get to know a guy properly before sleeping with them. This is true. However, my question is - why get into a relationship with someone in the first place that you do not know properly and are not comfortable with?

I don't see the difference between a relationship without sex and a platonic friendship except heightened closeness. If I was in the OP's boyfriend's shoes - I'd have stayed as friends until she was ready and comfortable to get physical. But I would be busy doing other things with people.

This is why I feel it's not good to keep putting titles on your relationships, using terms such as 'exclusivity'. Why should a guy be exclusive? What benefit is there?

Which boyfriend? You haven't had sex with him, he is not your boyfriend, he is not your lover, he is just a FRIEND. He has his right to do everything else.

You are just trying to move things on your own terms with different obscure excuse. EIther you have low sex drive or you aren't sure of securing your boyfriend. That's okay, I understand.

If you had payed attention to any of our conversation you'd know i have had sex with him, so i can rest in the knowledge that by a misogynists standards, my relationship is real. Although you're opinion on my sex life doesnt concern me at all.

Once again, void. I have a wonderful, regular sex life an equally wonderful loving committed relationship and i wouldnt have sex with anyone else for the life of me.

The fact that we waited means we're comfortable enough to tell each other what we enjoy, what we dont enjoy, if we want to try something different. We're completely open, which i can assure you, we wouldnt be if we had just jumped right into it. The fact that we waited does not knock two months off the length of our relationship it just means there's two months of enjoying each others company and deciding it was the right thing to do.

For some people waiting is just a better option, i dont understand how you're not getting that....are people who wait until marriage for sex also not in a relationship? They're just friends that hop into a marriage are they? no of course not.

If my partner, who is 10 years older than me, can understand that it can (for some people) be better to wait for sex then im sure you can too.

What if you meet a girl who is wonderful, smart, gorgeous, funny, everything you could possibly want and then find out she wants to wait? You'd honestly sit there, barely give her any respect, hold off on the attention, get laid from the side and just really hope she's stupid enough to wait for you to finish waving your cock around at any girl who might look promising? No girl worth anything will put up with that...

Also on the pregnancy thing : There.Is.Always.A.Chance. It hasnt happened yet (to your knowledge) although if im honest i cant imagine any girl would want to admit to someone like you that it didnt go quite according to plan so y'never know sweetheart

No, I am talking about the period before you "bestow" sex to him

Which boyfriend? You haven't had sex with him, he is not your boyfriend, he is not your lover, he is just a FRIEND. He has his right to do everything else.

Most couples who wait are actually doing other sexual acts such as touching and oral before they have sex, surely this means they are in a relationship? Because those sexual acts are far from plantonic, so therefore those relationships must still count even though they aren't engaging in the act of penetrative sex itself.

Yes, but the underlying problem is we have no ways to enforce each other to follow strictly that agreement.

Also, most girls if you're going out with them, unless its an open relationship, would not be happy with you deciding to do stuff with other girls if she wanted to wait until she was ready for penetrative sex, especally if she was still engaging in sexual acts such as oral sex with you, because to most people that would count as a sexual relationship. Besides even if it wasn't yet sexual, if you were officially a couple and you'd ask her to be your girlfriend and not just at a seeing each other stage, then most girls wouldn't stand for you getting with other girls and would see it as cheating, as to them you're in a official relationship which naturally also is considered by most people as an agreement and committment to be loyal unless specified as open or whatnot. Even if you don't consider it as one at this stage, many people do.

You are just trolling because you can't accept the chance that it rarely happens, and I am talking about with different partners. As I said, I have a system that control this **** so no babies mean no babies.

I never let girls impose what kind of relationship we have until we have sex. Indeed, after sex, it's all up to her if we see each other again. This is because I don't like to be the one in submissive position who have no choice but follow what girls want. I use penetrative sex as a landmark because to a girl, having boyfriend has different meaning. Yes, she can perform oral, he can perform cunnilingus, but still doesn't form a glue yet if you are living in a competitive environment where she can just meet other boys and do the same thing. Now, do I say that girl is a slut, no. Sometimes, you even need to have sex twice or three times with her to nail her down. Trust me, guys also want girls to stick around, and not just run away. We do feel lonely after passionate night and yet she is gone forever. It creates empty feeling that burn you hard even though sex is very good.

It's just we want both sex and relationship in our own terms, not just being controlled by you girls. We have no other ways around but putting more into balance by meeting other girls in our lives.

Most girls don't want me to find other girls on my side because they want to secure me as a boyfriend. Surely I can't stop them from meeting other guys and receiving more attention from guys, I have to compete against other guys and that's just a fair deal. This is beyond question because I cannot hold back my sexual desire just because some girls aren't ready to have sex yet. They are not related. While girls can still have a wide selection of guy, I don't, I have to stick to just one girl at a time, and that's not ideal.


Indeed, girls that I date and sleep with will not know each other, I do say that I am also seeing other people in my life in earlier stage to set the mindset that you aren't the only one in my life right now. However, I don't go into details because that's my life and she shouldn't be concerned by my private life. This is not cheating. Most important it is shown through my lifestyle and my way of acting so that will filter out most girls who don't want to get involved with me.

Girls who define it as cheating simply walk away, and I have no troubles with that. You will see that most attractive girls always have boyfriends, yet they don't sleep with many, if not any. This is the reason why I don't want to fall into that slot of boyfriend anymore and move straight to sex. The fact that I am dating with other women bring me to an equal position those girls, and therefore earn their respect.

No, I don't ask a girl to be my girlfriend, ever. I am not the one who decide what kind of relationship we have. It's actually her who ask me to be their boyfriend, then I will lay out my conditions and if she agree to all of them then we are a couple (means we are opened to see other people), if not then it's her choice to see me again for purely sex or leave. I don't have any problem with that.

Again, comes down to what you want. Before I thought OP's boyfriend don't have any sex after 5 months of waiting, and that was clearly that he was strung along. But now, it's all clear.

To guys: if you want to be perceive as a sexy lover, you act that way, if you want to be perceived like a good little boyfriend, then act lovey dovey. It's all your behaviour that will define how girls perceive you.

You're honestly suggesting that pregnancy rarely happens Seriously?

No babies that you know of means no babies that you know of.
You strut around acting as if you're god's gift to women, as if they should want to have sex with you besides how unbelievably disrespectful you are, you act as if women are there merely for your sexual pleasure i have no doubt that you'd find it quite easy to throw them to the gutter once you've gotten what you want from them so it should really come as no surprise that some girls want to wait for make sure they havent fallen into the trap of someone such as yourself.

If you're not man enough to find a girl worth waiting for then just admit it, dont turn it into some elaborate display of masculine power, you claim that 'no girl is special' and yet your hardly deserving of the ones that are. you surround yourself with easy women because you dont have the charm or the patience to put in the effort to be with someone worth while.

You're honestly suggesting that pregnancy rarely happens Seriously?

No babies that you know of means no babies that you know of.

Huh look at that emotional bitch haha
I never disrespect any woman, never beat any. In short I live my life, those who don't like it go away, those who love it stay with me.

Also, no, I don't dump some girls forever, simply stop seeing them for a while until their nuclear reactor calms down.


Oh please, are you praising yourself? It sounds so much like "you don't know how to handle me" from a 40 years old bitch. Who the **** do you think you are to tell which kind of women deserve me? You are just full of judgments yourself and pretend to be a good girl?


But no babies from mine, perhaps because I am too careful. Anyway, you are just bull****ting because you are not treated like a princess.

Never beat = ultimate Respect?

Oh so you can drop them and pick them back up whenever you like? even worse.

It's not a "you dont know how to handle me" at all it's a "you dont know how women like to be treated"

I'm treated incredibly well thankyou very much Probably much better than i deserve because my partner is a respectful man, not a boy who sticks it in any girl thats willing.

Well I'm 22, so maybe my perspective is different to younger people, but I would never wait 5 months for sex.

As far as I'm concerned, it isn't a relationship w/o sex. Sex is a way you express your feelings to each other. If I really like a girl, I want to pleasure her till the sun comes up.

The waiting for months thing would be a massive red flag for me at the start of a relationship. I would think it meant she had major issues, was emotionally cold, or just was asexual. To me it would indicate underlying problems.

I understand all girls are different, but I would put the maximum waiting period at about 3 weeks under normal circumstances.

Did he buy for you flowers and took you to the movie, baby?

Trust me, I really know how to treat a woman, inside and outside the bedroom. Cool girls experience incredible experience with me, high-octane sex and amazing adventure that most other dudes can just dream to have.

Flowers and movie might work on your little sluts but not those of us who actually think for ourselves. nobody falls for those cliche tricks.