(Original post by nevertoomuch)
I am actually surprised when I see a Asian female with an White guy, it's very rare.
Asian girls - you just don't know what you're missing.
South Asian girls or East Asian girls?
If you are talking about East Asians then I don't think its rare at all. I've seen quite a few of those in uni. But I live in NZ so maybe its different in the UK?
And with South Asian girls....hmm I think its quite rare for South Asians of both gender to date inter-racially but I've seen a few south asian girl/white guy couples in uni. I dunno maybe its just in your area?
And oh really? Please tell me what this special quality is that only white guys have that we're missing out on?
(nothing against white guys ofcourse lol)
I'm a South Asian girl and I find Latin men the most attractive - French, Spanish, Italian guys
But I wouldn't date one because the majority of them are not Muslim.I want a long term relationship which could eventually lead to marriage.And since I'm not allowed to marry non-Muslim men, then what's the point?
Family will always play a role, my family would freak out if I dated/married a white guy even if he is a Muslim.Most Asians especially girls are pressured by our parents to stay and date within their race.The 2 cultures are too different.
I think it's really the culture. I mean, Asians are really knitted together and it's just difficult to pierce in a web of traditions and family ties. They usually go for their own race because of the conservative aspect of their life. The religion too provides a big wall of separation. It is intricate in means of practice and faith.
Some Asian women though go for white men. They are usually the liberal thinkers and really open to a diversity of culture.
Asians, as a whole, almost always date/marry someone of their own race.Just like other races.
Plus, I don't think many white guys go for Asian girls anyway.
Hmm, really? Perhaps culturally, but I'm not sure this holds where you have a 'naturalised' Asian girl.. Any more Asian girls* wish to comment?
* assuming this Anonymous poster is an Asian girl
No, it isn't just a cultural thing. Yes, I am an Asian female (British citizen) and I genuinely don't find White men good looking in the slightest. I just don't like their skin colour, hair colour and facial features: pale blotchy skin, small eyes, thin lips etc. Most of my fellow Asian female friends also feel the same.
Most people prefer their own race - isn't this obvious?