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Guys with double standards

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    Erm, if it is justified to call girls slags just because they can get sex easier, then good-looking men should be less respected (or called a man-slag) than ugly guys because it would be a gazillion times harder for the ugly guy to get laid, but instead the good-looking ones are worshipped and the ugly ones are treated like crap. An ugly girl will possibly never ever get into a relationship and even if she did it'l be someone settling for her, but if an ugly guy got rich or learned to be funny and charming and stuff he could still pull a good-looking bird, whereas the ugly girl could get as rich or funny as she wants and still become a cat-lady.

    About guys being more visual-bullsh*t, most girls i know care as much as guys about how someone looks like, but some of my friends actively look or someone uglier than themselves just because they are scared that if the guys was more attractive than them he would leave for someone prettier or that other people would think that she is ugly. (stupid i know) :rolleyes:

    I think that anyone who sleeps with just about anyone to make themselves feel needed and special and/or to look good in front of their mates or anyone who does it because they are insecure is a slut.

    Someone who sleeps with a lot of people without caring that much about what they look like and other stuff is promiscuous.
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    (Original post by HFerguson)
    Men have to compete with one another to get picked for sex. They have to display that they have the best genes or the most value. Women have to compete too, but only for the BEST male. They can have sex anytime they choose, just not with the best choice. But if they were to lower their standards as men have to do, they would get to pick from a long line of men. "Getting laid" is not something that can happen every day for the common Joe. He has to navigate the maze of a woman delicately in social situations to convince her he's the best pick. If a woman goes to a bar, club, or casual encounters looking for sex, and only wants sex, she will have zero problems getting it. Therefore, over time, women have gained a negative connotation, because they are not "beating anyone" or doing anything remotely impressive, they are simply manipulating basic human biology for sexual gratification. And thus, poof, the term "slut" was manifested.
    Your point is right about men, but wrong about women. It's not just that it is easier to get laid as a woman which causes the negative connotations, but that it is in evolutionary terms undesirable for a woman to be promiscuous because of the limited offspring she can produce, and the risk of cuckoldry she poses to men.

    Of course, will get flamed for this, but that's just how it is.
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    (Original post by Kerny)
    Your point is right about men, but wrong about women. It's not just that it is easier to get laid as a woman which causes the negative connotations, but that it is in evolutionary terms undesirable for a woman to be promiscuous because of the limited offspring she can produce, and the risk of cuckoldry she poses to men.

    Of course, will get flamed for this, but that's just how it is.
    prophylactically +repped you to negate any future flaming
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    (Original post by Kerny)
    Your point is right about men, but wrong about women. It's not just that it is easier to get laid as a woman which causes the negative connotations, but that it is in evolutionary terms undesirable for a woman to be promiscuous because of the limited offspring she can produce, and the risk of cuckoldry she poses to men.

    Of course, will get flamed for this, but that's just how it is.
    Even if it was evolutionary the case, doesn't mean that it's should be acceptable in modern human culture. Besides how does having sex with lots of guys make them more infertile or breedable?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Even if it was evolutionary the case, doesn't mean that it's should be acceptable in modern human culture. Besides how does having sex with lots of guys make them more infertile or breedable?
    A woman having sex with lots of men in evolutionary terms is 'bad' not only because of the cuckoldry risk to men (hence fewer men would be willing to invest their time/resources/money in woman with a reputation for sleeping around out of fear that she won't produce his kids) but also, like I said, because of the limited number of offspring women can produce.

    Because women can afford to be choosy and because they can only produce a limited number of offspring, they want the best genes they can possibly get (whereas technically a man could have thousands of kids by moving from woman to woman every ten minutes, if he is the king of getting laid). Thus a woman having sex with any old random guy is seen as bad reproductive practice as far as genes are concerned.
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    (Original post by Kerny)
    A woman having sex with lots of men in evolutionary terms is 'bad' not only because of the cuckoldry risk to men (hence fewer men would be willing to invest their time/resources/money in woman with a reputation for sleeping around out of fear that she won't produce his kids) but also, like I said, because of the limited number of offspring women can produce.

    Because women can afford to be choosy and because they can only produce a limited number of offspring, they want the best genes they can possibly get (whereas technically a man could have thousands of kids by moving from woman to woman every ten minutes, if he is the king of getting laid). Thus a woman having sex with any old random guy is seen as bad reproductive practice as far as genes are concerned.
    What if she was pregnant? then the guy who impregnated her would know that it is his kid, besides why does it matter who impregnated her if he is not gonna stick around?

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