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  1. Anonymous's Avatar
    Penis size worries
    Hi all

    Before anyone posts, please be tolerant and considerate of my inner struggle with the issue.

    I am a brown male, 20 years old. Since I became 18, I would be very apprehensive about my penis size (5.1-5.5 inches in length, 3.5 inch girth during erection), as I would see the actors in porn and feel that I would never measure up in either dimension.

    I have had sex with only one girl in my life and she was very much satisfied with the sex we would have, and I was no longer worried about my size. We broke up now so Im not having sex anymore. The thing is that I was her first and she probably never had any expectations, and these days my worries about my penis size are returning, and I keep on thinking this will probably never be enough for the woman I will spend my life with in the future.

    I never really talked to anyone about it since it is embarrassing and I don't really know how other males of my ethnicity measure up. So I wanna know if this size is okay or not.

    Also, if this falls short of a decent penis, are there any legit ways of making it slightly thicker?
  2. Bradalee's Avatar
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    Re: Penis size worries
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Also, if this falls short of a decent penis, are there any legit ways of making it slightly thicker?
    Buy a convex mirror, that'll make things look a little better.
  3. pinkangelgirl's Avatar
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    Hey i think thats fine! I wouldnt worry about it. I know guys a lot smaller so seriously, dont worry!
  4. meloncoly's Avatar
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    Re: Penis size worries
    buy the bib starter hanging device
  5. oElectronic's Avatar
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    Re: Penis size worries
    Well that's a decent size, and around average. It's also about what you do with it not how big it is so don't worry about it!
  6. tehFrance's Avatar
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    Re: Penis size worries
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My penis 5.1-5.5 inches in length, 3.5 inch girth during erection
    So what you are saying is that you have an average sized penis...
  7. YetAnotherMember's Avatar
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    Re: Penis size worries
    Seriously, these ''im worried bout my penis size'' threads gotta stop...
  8. singerpianist's Avatar
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    Re: Penis size worries
    I wouldn't say that's at all small...and I think that the size means so much less to girls than you'd think - it's not so much about the size, but more what you can do with it (and don't compare to porn..they're abnormally mahooosive, and might even have the adverse effect of hurting the woman because of being too big!).
  9. navarre's Avatar
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    Sounds fine. Hate to brag... actually, I love bragging. Mine is 6.5 inches. But yours is still average!
  10. tashmuh's Avatar
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    Re: Penis size worries
    You should stop comparing your size to that of porn actors. A lot of camera trickery and fluffing is done in order to make a guy as big and unrealistic as possible. Your penis is entirely average and I certainly wouldn't complain at that girth.
  11. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Penis size worries
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hi all

    Before anyone posts, please be tolerant and considerate of my inner struggle with the issue.

    I am a brown male, 20 years old. Since I became 18, I would be very apprehensive about my penis size (5.1-5.5 inches in length, 3.5 inch girth during erection), as I would see the actors in porn and feel that I would never measure up in either dimension.

    I have had sex with only one girl in my life and she was very much satisfied with the sex we would have, and I was no longer worried about my size. We broke up now so Im not having sex anymore. The thing is that I was her first and she probably never had any expectations, and these days my worries about my penis size are returning, and I keep on thinking this will probably never be enough for the woman I will spend my life with in the future.

    I never really talked to anyone about it since it is embarrassing and I don't really know how other males of my ethnicity measure up. So I wanna know if this size is okay or not.

    Also, if this falls short of a decent penis, are there any legit ways of making it slightly thicker?
    Don't compare to porn, that is unrealistic. I am brown and mine is 6.5 inches so I think it's average. Don't worry about it.
  12. Tudball's Avatar
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    Re: Penis size worries
    (Original post by navarre)
    Sounds fine. Hate to brag... actually, I love bragging. Mine is 6.5 inches. But yours is still average!
    Take me to bed!
  13. cl_steele's Avatar
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    Re: Penis size worries
    dont worry to much about it, if iremember my figures correctly thats more or less averege for a white male and comparing it to porn stars well i wouldnt if i was you theyre in the minority and picked for their 'prowess'
    as for getting it thicker ... im not sure of any 'proven' methods but if memory serves something called jelqing may help you
  14. coca's Avatar
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    Re: Penis size worries
    The average length is supposed to be 5.5 inches.
  15. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Penis size worries
    OP here

    Thanks for all the replies. It does really help when others say its fine

    I think Jelqing helps though. they have forums and everything for that, where a lot of people have increased length and girth after MONTHS of exercise. I will try and see if it helps my in the next few months.
  16. 09001904's Avatar
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    Re: Penis size worries
    (Original post by navarre)
    Sounds fine. Hate to brag... actually, I love bragging. Mine is 6.5 inches. But yours is still average!
    mate, that is not worth bragging seriously. It is only 3 quarters of an inch longer than mine, and i am asian, so not impressive!
  17. Vikki1805's Avatar
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    Re: Penis size worries
    It's not the size that matters, it's knowing how to use it!
  18. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Penis size worries
    (Original post by 09001904)
    mate, that is not worth bragging seriously. It is only 3 quarters of an inch longer than mine, and i am asian, so not impressive!
    But every half inch is significant, it makes a diff. If he was 3/4 bigger he would be close to 7.5..
  19. int92's Avatar
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    Re: Penis size worries
    itds below average but not bad.

    google jelqing and you can gain 1-2 inches
  20. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Penis size worries
    Tell me about it. I've only got a 6" (6.4" if I dig deep into the skin) with a 5.5" girth.

    Plays on my mind a lot to be honest
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