[River Island Jack]

I was drunk, end of.

[Foo.mp3]

**** no!

[Dragonfly07]

I don't know about "special". It didn't feel very good but I love that guy to bits, we were both each other's firsts and we're still together a year after. Never been with anyone else.

[Anonymous]

It was fun and it was my (and his) first time, but not particularly special. Was a very spur of the moment thing, about 2 months into going out.

Don't regret it at all, we were both ready.

We're still together and just had our 4 year anniversary. We've had sex a lot of times, the first time doesn't stand out as particularly special, I can certainly think of other times which have been more so.

I was never one of those who thought the first time had to be "special" though anyway. Just view it neutrally.

[Journeyzap]

I think it was more special to the person I was doing it with (though it wasn't his first time) than it was to me.

[Dr.Thrax]

Is it worth it to wait for the special one? I'm 21 and sadly still a virgin, I'm kind of tired waiting for the so called one, Last week i had a chance to do it with this girl i met at the uni night club, Well i turned her down as did not really know her that well. Did I go wrong there? Should i just lose it to some random girl? I dont know. What you guys think ?

[BKS]

It was nice but nothing that special. I didn't really expect it to be. I did it because I wanted to in that moment. It wasn't built up to or anything like that

[Unununium]

Was special in the sense that I waited 10 months in the relationship, till we knew we loved each other and it was what we both wanted - it still hurt and wasn't brilliant but it would have been the same with anyone else.
I know I waited for the right time and don't regret it =)

[Anonymous]

I'd say it was ok but nothing great. I thought afterwards: "is this it?".

[Lucia.]

(Original post by Dr.Thrax)
Is it worth it to wait for the special one? I'm 21 and sadly still a virgin, I'm kind of tired waiting for the so called one, Last week i had a chance to do it with this girl i met at the uni night club, Well i turned her down as did not really know her that well. Did I go wrong there? Should i just lose it to some random girl? I dont know. What you guys think ?

Do whatever you're comfortable with, and don't put too much into what anyone else says.