Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?

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  • View Poll Results: Your verdict
    In favour
    368 82.88%
    Against
    85 19.14%

  1. headunderwater's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    I'm in favour of safe, consentual sex.

    As far as I'm concerned, marriage and sex are two completely separate things; there's no real connection between them. Have sex before marriage, after marriage, whatever - it's irrelevent. What IS relevent is that you have sex safely and conscienciously.
  2. Bagration's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    (Original post by 35mm_)
    I'm in favour of safe, consentual sex.

    As far as I'm concerned, marriage and sex are two completely separate things; there's no real connection between them. Have sex before marriage, after marriage, whatever - it's irrelevent. What IS relevent is that you have sex safely and conscienciously.
    Come on now, be reasonable. No risk, no fun. If this wasn't true, bungee jumping wouldn't be so popular.


    I'm against (other people using) condoms because the country needs to increase its population base. Of course I have no intention of having children for 10 years or more (hypocrit.)

    (edit: **** tsrs formatting.)
    Last edited by Bagration; 30-03-2012 at 13:59.
  3. headunderwater's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    (Original post by Bagration)
    Come on no
    w, no risk, no fun. If this wasn't true, bungee jumping wouldn't be so popular.
    Hah. I suppose
  4. headunderwater's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    (Original post by Bagration)
    I'm against (other people using) condoms because the country needs to increase its population base.
    What? Why do you think that?
  5. Bagration's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    (Original post by 35mm_)
    What? Why do you think that?
    people, ultimately, are the most critical strategic resource.
  6. Sgt.Incontro's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    (Original post by GottaLovePhysics! :))
    Haha the poll adds up to 105% Thats excellent
    Haha, yea WTF.
  7. Sgt.Incontro's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    (Original post by Bagration)
    Come on now, be reasonable. No risk, no fun. If this wasn't true, bungee jumping wouldn't be so popular.


    I'm against (other people using) condoms because the country needs to increase its population base. Of course I have no intention of having children for 10 years or more (hypocrit.)

    (edit: **** tsrs formatting.)
    What? You are deluded.
  8. Novis's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    No, but people've been doing it for 1000s of years so I'm not shocked by it or anything.
  9. Retrodiction's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    Don't see the issue with an act taking place between 2 consenting adults, and especially don't see how not having a piece of paper (marriage certificate) makes it any worse.
  10. HARRY PUTAH's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    (Original post by Iron Lady)
    My view is that people should wait for marriage.
    My view is that you STFU and run off a cliff.




    HELLO MODS!
  11. Llamageddon's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    (Original post by erobinson15)
    Completely for it! however there are some people in the world that should be made infertile...
    Charming.
  12. dgeorge's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    (Original post by Iron Lady)
    My view is that people should wait for marriage.
    I can only guess by the red bars that you enjoy giving controversial viewpoints...
  13. oo00oo's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    Obviously in favour...

    There's no negative consequences. Plus, sex is a natural biological function... marriage isn't. Telling somebody not to have sex before marriage is like telling them not to have a bowel movement before 5pm.
  14. Id and Ego seek's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    I'm not religious; I see no problem in it whatsoever as long as you're using protection.
  15. Bellissima's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    people should choose what they want and not judge others for what THEY choose to do.

    personally for me, marriage is just a legal thing as well as showing eachother your comittment... doesn't mean anything sexually... so i would not be with someone who wanted to wait until marriage for sex.
  16. NDGAARONDI's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    (Original post by ScheduleII)
    You are wrong.
    Christianity will never be obsolete. FULL STOP.

    I am a Christian and I agree with the OP. The proper context for sexual intercourse is within a committed lifelong relationship in which the man and woman have vowed fidelity to each other before God. The white dresses worn at marriage should mean something (ie purity)- I certainly hope my future wife hasn't cheated me out of that.

    "Buy before you try"- if we are going to use purchasing metaphors anyway. Human beings are not for sale. Sexual incompatibility is extremely rare in the experience of Christian counselors; it hardly (if ever) happens that a couple cannot have a loving and fulfilling physical relationship once they are married.
    Like slavery you mean? Funny that well known Christians like Pat Robertson can abuse sourcers' labour in diamond mines with impunity. But, as the Bible condones slavery, I guess this should be expected.

    Then again, you probably don't think anything of people having tattoos I guess. Always amuses me when Christians impose their beliefs on others without much criticism but if a Muslim advocated Sharia Law for civil matters, which the Jews already have, then the country explodes. This is just militant Christendom, as Baroness Warsi would put it. Well, it would be militant if it was atheism anyway.
    Last edited by NDGAARONDI; 30-03-2012 at 14:30.
  17. Frankie 007's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    Absolutely in favour of it. And even from a religious point of view, the message that is at the core of most faiths is love! The rest is just human interpretation and manipulation!
  18. digitalfever's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    (Original post by Multitalented me)
    Would you buy a car without a test drive?
    If the car had money, a good job and a house. Yeah.
  19. minimarshmallow's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    As long as its safe and consensual, who cares if someone is married or not?
    Also, I don't plan on getting married, so it isn't pre-marital sex for me...
  20. MikeySwansea's Avatar
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    Re: Do you morally agree with pre-marital sex?
    Reminds me of the Hart Devlin debate in Law.

    I agree with Hart when he said that morality should be left to the individual and that acts in private were not a threat to society.
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