(Original post by Anonymous)
but it is not culturally accepted and people would backbite about my family.
My father told me he would not mind, were it not for the fact that lots of people are waiting for his daughters to turn out badly (he does have quite a few foes because apparently we were raised better, not sure). These last few years, I hav fallen out with my family. I want to leave and have some peace (people walk over me here because my personality is not strong enough and I have no back-up whereas my siblings are very close and back each other up when disputes arise).
So, if I leave, my relatives would notice my absence (they visit us) and it would strain relations with my family even more, as they do not approve of it.
But I am just so sick of this place. I have grown to be a person with no confidence, introverted and unsure of herself because my decisions were always mocked and not regarded to be 'wise'.