[twinlensreflex]

(Original post by warriorheart)
Hello. Am I allowed to join in here?
How did you fix your sexuality?
I'm really uncertain about myself. I'm afraid of that kind of feelings I have, I know, that it sounds a bit stupid, but I don't know. It's hard. Sometimes I think I'm fighting against myself. And I don't wanna fight anymore. But I'm too afraid for stopping it.
I hope you got what I mean, even if my english is not the best. It would be nice, if someone answers.
Thank you for reading my stuff, Alina.

Hey

I wouldn't say that I have 'fixed' mine, I've known for a long time that I was bisexual, but for several years I was predominantly attracted to men. Now it's the other way round, and I'm far more attracted to women. I think sexuality is fluid to a certain extent, and it's okay if you can't really define what you've got going on. If that makes sense?

[warriorheart]

(Original post by twinlensreflex)
Hey

I wouldn't say that I have 'fixed' mine, I've known for a long time that I was bisexual, but for several years I was predominantly attracted to men. Now it's the other way round, and I'm far more attracted to women. I think sexuality is fluid to a certain extent, and it's okay if you can't really define what you've got going on. If that makes sense?

Thanks for your answer, very kind of you.

That totally makes sense! Because actually, it is/was the same with me. I'm just so damn confused about myself. I really don't know what's going on with me, and I always thought, that you have to know what you feel attracted to. Don't ask me why, but I always thought it. But actually I think that it's just about who you fall in love with. And personally, I think that you don't fall in love with a gender, you fall in love with a personality. So I didn't understand how people could fix (It isn't the right word in english, is it? ) their own sexuality, that's why I asked.

How are you? (:

[twinlensreflex]

(Original post by warriorheart)
Thanks for your answer, very kind of you.

That totally makes sense! Because actually, it is/was the same with me. I'm just so damn confused about myself. I really don't know what's going on with me, and I always thought, that you have to know what you feel attracted to. Don't ask me why, but I always thought it. But actually I think that it's just about who you fall in love with. And personally, I think that you don't fall in love with a gender, you fall in love with a personality. So I didn't understand how people could fix (It isn't the right word in english, is it? ) their own sexuality, that's why I asked.

How are you? (:

*high fives*

I consider people on an individual basis, I wouldn't rule anyone out because of their gender - I'm far more interested in what they're like as a person. but that'll change as I change I expect, and maybe that isn't such an awful thing. I dunno, I don't have a lot of coherent thoughts on sexuality

I'm good, ta. Revising my butt off you?

[warriorheart]

(Original post by twinlensreflex)
*high fives*

I consider people on an individual basis, I wouldn't rule anyone out because of their gender - I'm far more interested in what they're like as a person. but that'll change as I change I expect, and maybe that isn't such an awful thing. I dunno, I don't have a lot of coherent thoughts on sexuality

I'm good, ta. Revising my butt off you?

I have to say that I love those smileys.

Yes, and that's what I'm also thinking about that.

I'm fine too, thanks.
Oh, so what are you doing? :b

[lcsurfer]

(Original post by warriorheart)
Hello. Am I allowed to join in here?
How did you fix your sexuality?
I'm really uncertain about myself. I'm afraid of that kind of feelings I have, I know, that it sounds a bit stupid, but I don't know. It's hard. Sometimes I think I'm fighting against myself. And I don't wanna fight anymore. But I'm too afraid for stopping it.
I hope you got what I mean, even if my english is not the best. It would be nice, if someone answers.
Thank you for reading my stuff, Alina.

I agree with twin, I battled with mine for a long time as it's never been for me that I've been singly attracted to 1 gender, which made it ever so much more confusing... then everyone at school thought bisexual was a 'cool/fashion' statement at one time which made it worse.

I completely understand where you are coming from with regards to fighting against yourself, i must of done it for a few years at least. Now I just accept if i like someone its because of them and not their gender... My Dad said an awesome thing "Do you like them because of their anatomy or because of their personality?" and that pretty much sums it up.

[Ysolt]

(Original post by ATMarsden)
Boozpacho, sounds good :P

Although, everything still seems weird, as I'm still laughing at Liam's "reach arounds" :P

Haha good name. i think you might need to already be drunk before attempting to make one

[Ysolt]

(Original post by Terpsikhore)
It definitely wasn't a bloody mary, it was some sort of elderflower and prosecco concoction. With a tomato in it.

LOL How adventurous! Can't say it sounds anything but disgusting :s

[thurin]

[restoration]

Euuuugh grumpy mood such a crap day work So long I don't wanna go in tommorrow :'(

[Mad Vlad]

(Original post by Crisps)
Have decided that I am going to make do with a damaged phone for the next couple of weeks. Then, my excess for my insurance will drop from £50 to £10 as it will be over six months since my last claim.

I'd invest in a proper case for the replacement. Have you ever heard of something called D3O? It's magical stuff. Take a look

(Original post by warriorheart)
Hello. Am I allowed to join in here?
How did you fix your sexuality?
I'm really uncertain about myself. I'm afraid of that kind of feelings I have, I know, that it sounds a bit stupid, but I don't know. It's hard. Sometimes I think I'm fighting against myself. And I don't wanna fight anymore. But I'm too afraid for stopping it.
I hope you got what I mean, even if my english is not the best. It would be nice, if someone answers.
Thank you for reading my stuff, Alina.

Welcome Alina!

Your English is pretty good actually!

I went into the whole discovery process with a very open mind. I realised that I was noticing guys a lot more than I did to start with, but I chose not to get myself worried about it. I take the view that I am what I am. There's nothing I can do to change that, so I accept it.

Know that you're awesome, whether you're gay, straight, bi, trans; whatever.

[Mad Vlad]

(Original post by thurin)

Nawwwww!

[restoration]

(Original post by warriorheart)
Hello. Am I allowed to join in here?
How did you fix your sexuality?
I'm really uncertain about myself. I'm afraid of that kind of feelings I have, I know, that it sounds a bit stupid, but I don't know. It's hard. Sometimes I think I'm fighting against myself. And I don't wanna fight anymore. But I'm too afraid for stopping it.
I hope you got what I mean, even if my english is not the best. It would be nice, if someone answers.
Thank you for reading my stuff, Alina.

Hey Course your allowed to join in here! You don't need to fight against anything, what you feel is what you feel When I first started realising that I was attracted to guys I felt bad about it, pretty similar to you I guess but then I realised there is no point you can't choose who your attracted too. What you can do is be comfortable in yourself! Whatever you feel is normal and it's okay

[Crisps]

(Original post by Mad Vlad)
I'd invest in a proper case for the replacement. Have you ever heard of something called D3O? It's magical stuff. Take a look

True, but they don't protect the screen, which is my downfall!

Also, the other day I mentioned Tommy Bastow, the hot guy in the BT adverts (not the long haired ginger thing) being rather yummy. In fact, absolutely delicious!

[Terpsikhore]

Someone abandoned their frigging car on a level crossing. Meaning the trains are all now massively delayed, meaning I can't go to the dance class I've been looking forward to all day because seeing as I still have no job, I have to look to my hobbies for socialising and emotional fulfillment. I also have very limited money, which makes missing a non-refundable class even more annoying. ARGH. Why are some people so ****ing inconsiderate?!

So annoyed right now.

[Terpsikhore]

Oh, and it also turns out some people in this world are massive ****ing creepers who have no meaning to their lives, so they fill up their time pestering people they barely know and researching them on the Internet. Seriously, get a ****ing hobby, preferably one that doesn't make me want to PUNCH YOU IN THE MOUTH.

I'm so angry, even looking at pictures of cute puppies is just making me want to dropkick them.

[Mad Vlad]

(Original post by Crisps)
True, but they don't protect the screen, which is my downfall!

Also, the other day I mentioned Tommy Bastow, the hot guy in the BT adverts (not the long haired ginger thing) being rather yummy. In fact, absolutely delicious!

The screen generally only dies because of blunt force to the casing and deceleration forces associated with it hitting a hard surface, not from direct damage to the screen itself. You could get a case with a flippy lid to protect the screen itself from direct assault?

[Crisps]

(Original post by Mad Vlad)
The screen generally only dies because of blunt force to the casing and deceleration forces associated with it hitting a hard surface, not from direct damage to the screen itself. You could get a case with a flippy lid to protect the screen itself from direct assault?

Mmmm, true, TBH I think the screen is on its way out anyway. Sometimes the colours distort for a few seconds, but its very random. It can be fine for days then suddenly go haywire. So, if I mention it to the insurance company, I don't know how they would asses it.

[Mad Vlad]

(Original post by Crisps)
Mmmm, true, TBH I think the screen is on its way out anyway. Sometimes the colours distort for a few seconds, but its very random. It can be fine for days then suddenly go haywire. So, if I mention it to the insurance company, I don't know how they would asses it.

The insurance company will only look at the physical damage, rather than a warranty fault, unfortunately.

[Crisps]

(Original post by Mad Vlad)
The insurance company will only look at the physical damage, rather than a warranty fault, unfortunately.

Thats a bit silly. So if my LCD fails completely, I won't be covered?!

[Mad Vlad]

(Original post by Terpsikhore)
Someone abandoned their frigging car on a level crossing. Meaning the trains are all now massively delayed, meaning I can't go to the dance class I've been looking forward to all day because seeing as I still have no job, I have to look to my hobbies for socialising and emotional fulfillment. I also have very limited money, which makes missing a non-refundable class even more annoying. ARGH. Why are some people so ****ing inconsiderate?!

So annoyed right now.

Oh, and it also turns out some people in this world are massive ****ing creepers who have no meaning to their lives, so they fill up their time pestering people they barely know and researching them on the Internet. Seriously, get a ****ing hobby, preferably one that doesn't make me want to PUNCH YOU IN THE MOUTH.

I'm so angry, even looking at pictures of cute puppies is just making me want to dropkick them.

I find shouting the C-bomb at the top of my voice until I run out of air, works quite well.