Do they find me boring?
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Do they find me boring?
I'm supposed to be going out tomorrow night with some friends from uni. One of them mentioned that she's never seen me really really drunk before and I told her that I didn't like not being able to remember the night before and sort of knew my limits. She keeps pressuring me to get absolutely wiped out and I honestly don't know why :/ Part of it might be because I drink stuff like whiskey and soco so it probably doesn't look like I'm drinking a lot in comparison to others who are downing alcopops. I'm a bit of an introvert when I'm sober but when I'm tipsy I think I'm pretty sociable; now I'm worried that I'm not the greatest person to go out with after all. Maybe the rest of the group are thinking the same thing and she's just trying to give me a hint? Or is she just being a bit immature? I'm really not looking forward to going out now in case she goes on about it the whole night
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Re: Do they find me boring?
They wouldn't have invited you/mentioned going out to you unless they want you there and enjoy your company. She might personally need to get wasted to have a fun night so she might just not understand that you can have a good night without getting so drunk. Go out and stick to your guns.
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Re: Do they find me boring?(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm supposed to be going out tomorrow night with some friends from uni. One of them mentioned that she's never seen me really really drunk before and I told her that I didn't like not being able to remember the night before and sort of knew my limits. She keeps pressuring me to get absolutely wiped out and I honestly don't know why :/ Part of it might be because I drink stuff like whiskey and soco so it probably doesn't look like I'm drinking a lot in comparison to others who are downing alcopops. I'm a bit of an introvert when I'm sober but when I'm tipsy I think I'm pretty sociable; now I'm worried that I'm not the greatest person to go out with after all. Maybe the rest of the group are thinking the same thing and she's just trying to give me a hint? Or is she just being a bit immature? I'm really not looking forward to going out now in case she goes on about it the whole night
Heeeyyaa!
First of all don't be sad it really doesn't worth! She acts like a silly girl and she was immature with u!! If I was u I would not care that much for her! Go and be yourself! If u don't want to drink very much it is not a problem! U can still have fun.. Just ignore her and have fun with the others!