Poll: Girls, would you honestly marry a bi male?
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Re: Poll: Girls, would you honestly marry a bi male?Obviously you shouldn't live with that, but just because someone fancies guys, it doesn't mean he will go out and **** them when he's married to a woman. I'm sure not all bisexual people feel the need to cheat on their partners, just like a straight person doesn't have to go out and have sex with other women.(Original post by hippieglitter)
No, I couldn't. My mum knew a woman whose husband was bi and she just had to accept that he would go out cottaging every so often. I wouldn't be able to deal with that. -
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Re: Poll: Girls, would you honestly marry a bi male?1) Dude...you may have lost your anonymity...just to let you know. Unless randoms are bumping your thread!
2) Yes. Well...I never want to get married but for this threads sake yes. So what if he's bi? If we had been dating for a long enough time to progress to marriage its no different him being bi than straight. He picked me, I picked him. His sexual preferences don't matter as he is obviously straight enough to be happy with a female for potentially life. -
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Re: Poll: Girls, would you honestly marry a bi male?that has nothing to do with being bi and everything to do with her insecurities letting her get walked all over and his inability to remain faithful.(Original post by hippieglitter)
No, I couldn't. My mum knew a woman whose husband was bi and she just had to accept that he would go out cottaging every so often. I wouldn't be able to deal with that. -
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Re: Poll: Girls, would you honestly marry a bi male?I wouldn't think anything of it. So long as I loved you, and you loved me..I don't see why I'd question it. When you get together with someone you agree to be faithful (open r'ships etc aside) so why should that apply only to straight relationships etc. Obviously if you've got some un-satisfied desires regarding getting with a man that'd have to be your decision when dedicating yourself to me...but it's just the same as saying 'I'm not going to get with any women anymore'. Same level of dedication.
I honestly can't see why it's an issue to some people. I can accept it is, but I don't understand why. -
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Re: Poll: Girls, would you honestly marry a bi male?Just so were totally clear, I find the suggestion that either being gay or bisexual is some kind of negative side effect of family issues to be offensive. Homosexuality and more predominately bisexuality is observed in over 400 species including humans, and gay/bisexual people come from an array of backgrounds that has no bearing on the choice less issue of sexuality. Seeing as it isn't a choice, pretending that being gay is somehow subject to change is absurd and leads to many people frittering away their life savings away on ineffective methods when really the best thing anyone can do is learn to accept themselves.(Original post by Anonymous)
Good afternoon, how do you think lack of fatherly love affected you? The impression I have on my father is very fearful as a result of issues which were present between my parents. My mother was overprotective and kept me with her all the time and did not allow my self to grow properly.
Would you change to being "straight" if you can? If the "cause" is environmental, it could be possible to do something about it.
Doesn't that mean he was gay though if he couldn't live without the companionship of a man as a woman wasn't enough for him?(Original post by hippieglitter)
No, I couldn't. My mum knew a woman whose husband was bi and she just had to accept that he would go out cottaging every so often. I wouldn't be able to deal with that.Last edited by j0hn; 09-04-2012 at 02:43. -
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Re: Poll: Girls, would you honestly marry a bi male?Yes, providing he met all of the regular conditions for me to marry someone (eg: attractive, loving, faithful etc). I doubt a lot of the people saying no would really mean that if they met and fell in love with their perfect guy who happened to be bisexual (but only had eyes for them).
I already dated a guy who was bi. I broke up with him but not because he was bi. -
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Re: Poll: Girls, would you honestly marry a bi male?Sometimes you hear 'oh, but I don't want to be cheated on with a guy' - surely, being cheated on is the bad thing, the sexual preference of a person doesn't dictate whether they're more likely to cheat on you. So, if I loved a man and knew he loved me, then his sexual preference (obviously, he'd have to be of a preference that included females in some way) wouldn't affect whether I married him or not.
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Re: Poll: Girls, would you honestly marry a bi male?May I ask why so many people assume that bisexuals are more likely to cheat?! It's just an ignorant perception. Bisexual simply means you are attracted to both sexes however if you are in a relationship with a man or woman you are faithful to that person. If anything it's your own insecurity if you think they will cheat.
