(Original post by starkey)
There's somebody out there for everyone, and despite your evident low self-confidence you have to believe that. The right person will come along and you'll just know. In the meanwhile, maybe try and approach someone you like and ask- if you don't ask you'll never know. Get a few drinks inside of you first, I know it can seem daunting but really, what is there to lose? You're no different from when you started or you've ended up with a relationship.
Thing is, even when i'm steaming drunk i've had some of my friends tell me to go over to someone but i'm still too nervous
I don't think i'm bad looking at all, i just don't believe anyone could find me attractive. Don't know why my confidence is so low when its fairly high in everything else.
be confident lad, all ye can do and as for that site which i see being mentioned by that midlands guy, do share. If there was an award for cockblocking ones self i'm pretty sure I'd be a good contender. I can't read girls at all haha
You sound like you've got a lot going for you so be confident! Confidence (but not cockiness) is a very attractive quality to a lot of people. Don't put yourself down people live life at different paces but that doesn't mean that yours won't 'catch up' so to speak. Stop worrying, relax, start socialising and take things from there.