(Original post by idkwhattosay)
I don't think that the outer appearance should matter whatsoever! You shouldn't base what you like about someone, on their figure or their 'size'!
Yes, a woman can be thin and curvy...big and curvy...thin with no curves and large with no curves...but does that really define who the person is on the inside? What if it so happens it's someone battling some sort of disease (like, diabetes) that causes them to gain weight? Are you going to judge her on that and not just...be with her because of it?
Or what if it's someone who has an eating disorder (one that isn't forced on themselves)? Are you going to stay away, because she isn't 'curvy' or large?
I have a thick hourglass shape. Meaning, I am bigger, BUT, I still have curves...but from what I've been reading, it's no wonder I have hardly any self esteem! It's people like you guys, that make us girls, feel like crap and feel like they don't matter. I am a C/D cup size for my breasts. I have thighs that touch, a stomach and back that are larger and my arms are bigger too. I have a daughter and a fiance...but I'm so scared still, as to what my own fiance thinks, because of comments like what I've been reading tonight.
'boobs, butt etc'? Really? Why is it that men have to be such pigs! Why can't it, for ONCE, be about who the person is INSIDE? What if you were blind...you met a girl, you loved her laugh, her voice, the way she made you smile and laugh because of her jokes or her cute lil mishaps. You guys connect, go out more and more...then bam, it comes to feeling what he body is like...and if it isn't what you like, you just up and dipset? Like, for real? I'm talking, you touch her, feel ONE role and bounce?
I'm sorry to say, but that ain't being a man. A MAN will accept a woman for exactly WHO she is...INSIDE AND OUT.
To judge a woman by the shape and size of her body, is like judging a book or movie by it's cover. You don't know what you got until you try it.
Yeah sure, skinny girls can wear 'nicer' clothing, but hell...us big girls? We can dance I'll tell ya that!
So ya'll best get over your damn ego's and suck up your pride and start accepting us women the EXACT DAMN WAY WE ARE...or you are gunna be in for some slapping in the near future. Remember, you'lll probably NEVER end up with someone like BEYONCE...wanna know why? Because she is PHOTOSHOPPED, it's not real. Don't matter what ya'll say!
GROW SOME BALLS, STOP BEING COWARDS, GET RID OF THE EGO, SWALLOW YOUR PRIDE AND START TAKING PLEASURE IN THE BEAUTIFUL THINGS...no matter their size or shape. Women have a lot to offer men...as much as men have a lot to offer women...and this entire subject goes to BOTH men and women.
Stop judging us by our size and shape. Accept what you know will treat you right. That's what it's about.
Ok, I've said what I had to say...goodnight scottland!