Does anyone here lead a double life???

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  1. 99luft Balons's Avatar
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    Does anyone here lead a double life???
    Living two lives has to be at least twice as difficult!

    I'm a non-troll by day and a troll by night, so I guess I lead a double life, on TSR at least.

    But seriously?
    Last edited by 99luft Balons; 06-04-2012 at 23:09.
  2. Meus's Avatar
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    It can be both. Britain is a nation composed of multiple cultural and ethnic backgrounds. It would be an accomplishment owned by both their British identity and Asian heritage; both communities would celebrate it.

    This is no longer the 19th century where British denotes [caucasian] ethnicity
    Last edited by Meus; 06-04-2012 at 23:02.
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    (Original post by Meus)
    It can be both. Britain is a nation composed of multiple cultural and ethnic backgrounds. It would be an accomplishment owned by both their British identity and Asian heritage; both communities would celebrate it.

    This is no longer the 19th century where British denotes [caucasian] ethnicity

    (Original post by 99luft Balons)
    Living two lives has to be at least twice as difficult!
    Not sure if this reply is actually relevant to the OP's post.
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    Er, what do you mean by a double life? I kind of do, my parents don;t know about my bf. But that is the extent of it. And it's not too difficult as I don't live at home anymore.
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    95% of young British Asians,especially females

    EDIT:why am i getting negged? Its a fact!
    Last edited by frenchfries; 06-04-2012 at 23:46.
  6. MissRiah12345's Avatar
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    (Original post by Ayshizzle)
    Er, what do you mean by a double life? I kind of do, my parents don;t know about my bf. But that is the extent of it. And it's not too difficult as I don't live at home anymore.
    LOL....that was me last year, sneaking about, pretending I was sleeping over my friends....ahh good times...
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    People think I'm much happier than I actually am.
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    By day I'm a mild mannered student, but by night...
  9. Meus's Avatar
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    Seems like the OP changed the thread completely. The original title was asking whether a British Asian's accomplishment could be identified as either a British or Asian accomplishment.
    Last edited by Meus; 06-04-2012 at 23:01.
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    (Original post by frenchfries)
    95% of young British Asians,especially females
    having said that, you must be a young british asian?
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    Not a completely double life.. My parents just don't know about my boyfriend and I do have do sneak around Or lie. I'm prob abit more reserved at home too.
  12. 99luft Balons's Avatar
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    (Original post by Meus)
    Seems like the OP changed the thread completely. The original title was asking whether a British Asian's accomplishment could be identified as either a British or Asian accomplishment.
    Shhh..that thread was a flop
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    (Original post by frenchfries)
    95% of young British Asians,especially females
    I am the 5%. My mother's pretty cool (she sets reasonable boundaries but she's quite strict. So for example she's let me go to a few gigs/paid for my guitar lessons but I've never been explicitly told not to drink/date/smoke etc and I've never done those or felt the need to but I'm not saying I judge those that do - everyone leads their own lives) and I'm not a terribly religious muslim female (well I wear a scarf etc but I feel that I could be better). My mum's pretty awesome.

    But I guess the double life depends on how open minded your parents are and how much they are wanting you to integrate. I'm quite lucky in a way that my mum and me are on the same sort of wavelength and she's pretty open minded.
    Last edited by Supermassive_muse_fan; 07-04-2012 at 00:31.
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    (Original post by MissRiah12345)
    LOL....that was me last year, sneaking about, pretending I was sleeping over my friends....ahh good times...
    Lol luckily I never had to lie to that extent as I've lived away from home since we've been together! But yeah, if I lived at home it would be a complete nightmare. Even though I'm 22 my mum insists on knowing what i'm doing EVERY SECOND OF MY LIFE.

    (Original post by .Missy)
    Not a completely double life.. My parents just don't know about my boyfriend and I do have do sneak around Or lie. I'm prob abit more reserved at home too.
    Lol join the club
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    Every Thursday night I dress up as a cat and eat out of people's bins.
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    (Original post by frenchfries)
    95% of young British Asians,especially females
    What do you mean?
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    (Original post by Ayshizzle)
    Lol luckily I never had to lie to that extent as I've lived away from home since we've been together! But yeah, if I lived at home it would be a complete nightmare. Even though I'm 22 my mum insists on knowing what i'm doing EVERY SECOND OF MY LIFE.



    Lol join the club
    LOL, tsr badgirls
  18. 99luft Balons's Avatar
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    (Original post by Ayshizzle)
    Lol luckily I never had to lie to that extent as I've lived away from home since we've been together! But yeah, if I lived at home it would be a complete nightmare. Even though I'm 22 my mum insists on knowing what i'm doing EVERY SECOND OF MY LIFE.



    Lol join the club
    Why aren't you allowed a boyfriend?:confused:you're 22? :eek:
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    (Original post by MissRiah12345)
    LOL, tsr badgirls
    Haha!

    I don;t feel that bad though, am just trying to keep them off my back about marriage. For now anyways Asian parents!
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    Re: Does anyone here lead a double life???
    (Original post by 99luft Balons)
    Living two lives has to be at least twice as difficult!

    I'm a non-troll by day and a troll by night, so I guess I lead a double life, on TSR at least.

    But seriously?
    Interesting
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