Three years without and counting...
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Original post by JLF
it's somewhat comforting to hear i'm not alone in my frustration that others have had similar periods of abstinence.
someone told me it's better to be too forward than too passive. it's not always just 'gonna happen' though i made the mistake of thinking this with my ex who was inexperienced with guys. fml.
escort/prostitute becoming more and more tempting. screw the stigma. going to amsterdam soon where funnily enough i last got laid...three years ago...great...
is game a skill that can be acquired or is it a case of either you got it or you don't? sure feels like it's the latter.
someone told me it's better to be too forward than too passive. it's not always just 'gonna happen' though i made the mistake of thinking this with my ex who was inexperienced with guys. fml.
escort/prostitute becoming more and more tempting. screw the stigma. going to amsterdam soon where funnily enough i last got laid...three years ago...great...
is game a skill that can be acquired or is it a case of either you got it or you don't? sure feels like it's the latter.
I'm 20 years old and I've never had sex...the worst thing is it would be awkward if a girl wanted to f**k me, I would not know what to do, it being my first time and everything
Original post by Dioufy
Try and be a bit more confident and approach girls when ever you can. Just be relaxed, polite and let the conversation flow, you should be able to find at least one talking point and take it from there.
Also try out a dating website called 'Plenty Of Fish', loads of game girls on there or send me a pm if you're over 18 and you can come down to my club in Camden, we get lot's of pretty girls in!!
Also try out a dating website called 'Plenty Of Fish', loads of game girls on there or send me a pm if you're over 18 and you can come down to my club in Camden, we get lot's of pretty girls in!!
Can I come? Please : ) I'm 20, still a virgin, and love partying
Original post by Dioufy
Try and be a bit more confident and approach girls when ever you can. Just be relaxed, polite and let the conversation flow, you should be able to find at least one talking point and take it from there.
Also try out a dating website called 'Plenty Of Fish', loads of game girls on there or send me a pm if you're over 18 and you can come down to my club in Camden, we get lot's of pretty girls in!!
Also try out a dating website called 'Plenty Of Fish', loads of game girls on there or send me a pm if you're over 18 and you can come down to my club in Camden, we get lot's of pretty girls in!!
Can I come? Please : ) I'm 20, still a virgin, and love partying
Try 7 years . . . {i'm female}
Original post by Anonymous
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Not a very long term solution though, is it?
Original post by DavidU571
Can I come? Please : ) I'm 20, still a virgin, and love partying
Yep, bring some mates, I'll put you on the guest list and get the party started!
Best thing to do... Just carry on and you'll meet someone it'll happen. Yeah it's frustrating.. I was 21 before I even fooled around with anyone. I met someone and it hit me like a truck and we got it on basically.. I never expected it. Just be yourself and be patient and it'll come :P
I don't think resorting to an escort is a particularly good idea. I've a lot of friends who use sex as something more than just getting their jollies. They use it to fill voids that can't be filled with sex, resulting in them only feeling down about themselves afterwards. They always told me they regret doing what they did. If you can do that then sure, go ahead. Sex is just fun after all :P but just be careful is all I say and think about it.
I don't think resorting to an escort is a particularly good idea. I've a lot of friends who use sex as something more than just getting their jollies. They use it to fill voids that can't be filled with sex, resulting in them only feeling down about themselves afterwards. They always told me they regret doing what they did. If you can do that then sure, go ahead. Sex is just fun after all :P but just be careful is all I say and think about it.
i think it would be easier to cope with if i'd had no chances but i did. many in fact. a girlfriend for nearly a year who came round many times a week. how many hints does one need? jeez...
7 months and the regret is still consuming me. 'move on and find someone else' i hear you say. if only it was that easy.
yep what a depressing thread, though a reality for so many of us. and what help is moaning about it on the internet? none but i'm doing it anyway
oh and i 'did the prossie thing' - major let down, buy hey it's only been a week now!
7 months and the regret is still consuming me. 'move on and find someone else' i hear you say. if only it was that easy.
yep what a depressing thread, though a reality for so many of us. and what help is moaning about it on the internet? none but i'm doing it anyway
oh and i 'did the prossie thing' - major let down, buy hey it's only been a week now!
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Original post by JLF
oh and i 'did the prossie thing' - major let down, buy hey it's only been a week now!
Haha, LAD!
How much did you pay?
Original post by Anonymous
Try 7 years . . . {i'm female}
I'd rather not.
Original post by JLF
"Pussy - The prime motivating factor in any (straight) males life. Like oxygen, it's only important if you're not getting any. Lack thereof causing depression, anxiety, willingness to do any stupid stunt to get some, and a train of thought that focuses on little but the question of why you're the only one on the planet not getting any."
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"Pussy - The prime motivating factor in any (straight) males life. Like oxygen, it's only important if you're not getting any. Lack thereof causing depression, anxiety, willingness to do any stupid stunt to get some, and a train of thought that focuses on little but the question of why you're the only one on the planet not getting any."
/
Amen.
Just think of how good it'll be when it ends!
Original post by jam277
It isn't as simple as, lets have sex, the girl can say no, or the girl can withhold for a long time when you can't wait that long (happened to me).
I'm going to hell you say? I already knew that.
Original post by 331sam331
Haha, LAD!
How much did you pay?
How much did you pay?
€50 in amsterdam. had to be done really as i was there.
Original post by JLF
€50 in amsterdam. had to be done really as i was there.
Not bad, good place to do it too because all the girls have pretty regular sexual health checkups don't they?
Any girls feel free to neg me, but it's different for guys. Yes it's much better when there's feelings involved, but guys can be satisfied by just getting their end away.
Sorry but it's true!
Original post by JLF2
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Five years!....
Five years!....
Hang on.... are you the OP? And it's been five years?!?!
I'm currently on 20 hours and it's bad enough for me.....
Original post by JLF
oh and i 'did the prossie thing' - major let down, buy hey it's only been a week now!
This suggests that it's not sex you're looking for, it's something else.
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