[resentment.]

(Original post by Evangelica)
If you have to do three years of sixth form instead of the standard two, perhaps having a job has negatively influenced your studies.

I'm just saying that there's a reason why some people choose not to work and study at the same time.

that is a valid point.
but the factor that id pinpoint in the decline of my education would be a) procrastinating and b) having 5 operations to remove 2 tumours and a large portion of time off school.

[Bagration]

(Original post by MrTwist)
I think he's gay. I'm 18 and really unpopular yet i've done everything with a girl without paying(been going to gym religiously for two years, which helped a lot) so if he (you) really wanted to have sex with a girl he (you) would have been able to.

Now, why could that be...?

[snowman77]

(Original post by TheCurlyHairedDude)
Seriously who has NEVER kissed a girl at 21?

Even if you're gay and you was drunk you would have kissed a girl at some point, I don't get it? Have you never been around woman?

i know its strange. i went to an all male school and didn't socialise with any girls outside school. i was a nervous wreck around girls when i went to uni. it took me the best part of a year to become comfortable around girls at uni. it does not help either when you are a quiet person naturally. i went to parties and clubbing events at uni. less as time has gone on. the chance never came up for me to kiss a girl let alone have sex. most of the social situations at uni were with guys and the few girls who were there had boyfriends.

does that answer your question?

[snowman77]

(Original post by DylanInTheMovies)
Sounded fine til you got to the bit about the gym.

what is so bad about going to the gym?

[snowman77]

(Original post by MrTwist)
I think he's gay. I'm 18 and really unpopular yet i've done everything with a girl without paying(been going to gym religiously for two years, which helped a lot) so if he (you) really wanted to have sex with a girl he (you) would have been able to.

i am not gay. the chance has never come up. i have been going to the gym religiously aswell (half a year less than you).

[Bagration]

(Original post by snowman77)
i know its strange. i went to an all male school and didn't socialise with any girls outside school. i was a nervous wreck around girls when i went to uni. it took me the best part of a year to become comfortable around girls at uni. it does not help either when you are a quiet person naturally. i went to parties and clubbing events at uni. less as time has gone on. the chance never came up for me to kiss a girl let alone have sex. most of the social situations at uni were with guys and the few girls who were there had boyfriends.does that answer your question?

cmon dude dont go clubbing to get laid especially in your situation.

[Iron Lady]

You have self-respect, I like you.

[mel_1991]

You sound like a nice guy who just hasn't met the right girl and if you're a student then i'd understand why you didn't have a job (I'm a Uni student too).

[Evangelica]

(Original post by resentment.)
that is a valid point.
but the factor that id pinpoint in the decline of my education would be a) procrastinating and b) having 5 operations to remove 2 tumours and a large portion of time off school.

That's fair enough. To be honest, I do admire your work ethic; the only reason I said anything was because you seemed to be ridiculing the OP for not having worked yet, perhaps unintentionally so. I hope this academic year is better for you than the last.

[resentment.]

(Original post by Evangelica)
That's fair enough. To be honest, I do admire your work ethic; the only reason I said anything was because you seemed to be ridiculing the OP for not having worked yet, perhaps unintentionally so. I hope this academic year is better for you than the last.

i didnt mean to come across like that but people seem to have taken it the wrong way.
appreciate it. best of luck with your not too distant future also.

[MrTwist]

(Original post by snowman77)
i am not gay. the chance has never come up. i have been going to the gym religiously aswell (half a year less than you).

Sure you're not gay? Nothing wrong with being gay. If you go to university though i really don't get how you've not been with anyone....?

[MrTwist]

(Original post by Bagration)
Now, why could that be...?

I'm not sure what you're getting at, i assume i've done something to give myself away but don't know what it is

[Architecture-er]

(Original post by snowman77)
what are your honest opinions on a guy like this:

- 21 year old (22 in a few months) white male

- never had a job (he would like one. it has to be part time or holiday work because he is a uni student.

- never had sex (not out of choice)

- never kissed a girl (not out of choice)

- never had a girlfriend (not out of choice)

- mostly likes time alone but knows he has to socialise to ever get a chance of a girlfriend or sexual contact with a girl (unless he pays a prossie or escort. he is strictly against doing this)

- loves to work out in the gym (he has been doing this for 1.5 years)

This is me, except for the strange bit about the prostitutes..
Except had a couple of girlfriends, but they don't really count

[StartSomething]

Urm. I'd have to meet him to form an opinion of him.

[effofex]

(Original post by snowman77)
i know its strange. i went to an all male school and didn't socialise with any girls outside school. i was a nervous wreck around girls when i went to uni. it took me the best part of a year to become comfortable around girls at uni. it does not help either when you are a quiet person naturally. i went to parties and clubbing events at uni. less as time has gone on. the chance never came up for me to kiss a girl let alone have sex. most of the social situations at uni were with guys and the few girls who were there had boyfriends.

does that answer your question?

I went to an all-male institution as well. I didn't socialize with many women at university - all the societies I participated in were very male-dominated. The industry I work in is also very male-dominated (95%+).

That doesn't mean you need to be a nervous wreck around girls. They're just female people. They're not very strong either. I can't understand why you would be intimidated by them. Also - if you really wanted to talk one - surely you could just go to a lounge bar (rather than parties/clubbing)?

[sugar-n-spice]

your probs too much of a nice guy

(Original post by Iron Lady)
You have self-respect, I like you.

he sed not out of choice

[UnknownPerson]

By reading that .. he doesnt sound like a man

[Profesh]

(Original post by beepbeeprichie)
Because during this time you have the opportunity to meet an enormous amount of women. After uni it only becomes feasible at work but that's always tricky. And going out to bars by yourself won't work (trust me).

That very much depends on the bar, and on how easily you stand out. (Trust me.)

[BusheSCFC]

(Original post by TheCurlyHairedDude)
Seriously who has NEVER kissed a girl at 21?

Even if you're gay and you was drunk you would have kissed a girl at some point, I don't get it? Have you never been around woman?

LAD.

[beepbeeprichie]

(Original post by BusheSCFC)
LAD.

I'm 23!