Well thats a bit nieve i think as anyone with that sort of talent would want to show it imo. I agree that u can just do sporty/fitness activities for fun as many people do but pole dancing? At least if you were good at something else and competed it wouldn't involve grinding a pole half naked.
(Original post by Village Whisper)
Why is it pointless though? What about the personal satisfaction of knowing you can do something well? There are many singers, for example, who might take lessons and practice and become amazing at it. They don't all then enter The X Factor or whatever just because they're good. They might be housewives with children, with the voice of Whitney Houston. Why can't that be enough, if they're happy? That's what I don't get. You could train to be an incredible pole dancer, but that doesn't mean you then have to enter world-class competitions. It's not a waste of effort if the person is happy with themselves and what they can do.
I think fitness hobbies are great as i myself enjoy going to the gym but i just cant see the point of pole dancing unless your fine with being a bit slutty and taking part in comps and shows
Just thought id point out that i don't think every girl who pole dances sleeps around
Last edited by DWC; 20-04-2012 at 15:19.
What exactly am I judging when I say it's none of your business what these women do in their free time, and it's not at all sexual unless the context makes it sexual? Clearly you've misunderstood my posts quite considerably, or you're just offended that people will do things without your say-so which displeases your ego.
(Original post by py0alb)
I'm not having a moral debate, you are.
I'm not judging, you are.
I'm saying "don't judge". In fact I've said that like 100 times, and you continue to disagree with me when I say that. Hence you're the judgemental bigot here, not me.
All I have seen from you is trying to persuade people who disagree with you to go over to your line of thinking. You're having a debate on morality, if you don't think you are then it's probably best you stop because you haven't contributed anything relevant to the OP's question.
It's always great when your best comeback is "I'm not, you are!" Just shows how weak your points are. You've effectively said "I'm not judging, but it's still sexual" which is on par with saying "No offence, but you're ugly".
Last edited by SpicyStrawberry; 20-04-2012 at 15:30.