[Anonymous]

I am SO annoyed at her. We broke up in October, things have been very difficult for me since. A month ago I finally managed to move on. I just met this truly wonderful girl a week ago. We finally have found the time to see each other for a drink.
... And my ex is doing her best to try and join us! She is friends with the girl, which is why she is doing this. I know her only reason is to 'control' the situation and avoid anything happening between me and this girl. The thing is, I am leaving for uni the day after, so no 'second chances'... And I know if I tell my ex that I prefer to see this girl alone, my ex will let her know, and she will probably think I'm weird/freak out. What would you do in this situation? Please help!

[Schroedinger's Pandora]

Dating your ex's friend is a pretty crappy and insensitive thing to do, dude.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Schroedinger's Pandora)
Dating your ex's friend is a pretty crappy and insensitive thing to do, dude.

This girl is amazing, ex's friend or not.

[dgeorge]

(Original post by Schroedinger's Pandora)
Dating your ex's friend is a pretty crappy and insensitive thing to do, dude.

Trying to screw an ex is also a bit crappy

[xXHolly_90Xx]

Don't go out with your exs friend! Thats pretty harsh.. you might be over her but obviously she isn't over you, there's no need to be cruel to her!

[Anonymous]

(Original post by xXHolly_90Xx)
Don't go out with your exs friend! Thats pretty harsh.. you might be over her but obviously she isn't over you, there's no need to be cruel to her!

I forgot an important detail: I'm pretty sure she's over me. She's had a boyfriend for 3 months now and they seem to be fine. She isn't jealous, she's just being annoying.