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  1. Knighted's Avatar
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    Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    I'm not talking about the people who keep it chilled and quiet. I'm talking about the people who have 1/2 or maybe 3 **** buddies and constantly whinge that they don't want people getting the wrong idea/don't want to be known as sluts.

    One of my friends has recently turned into one, she was a virgin till last year and its suddenly exploded everywhere (pun intended.)

    We used to have fun conversations about how **** politics/football is, game talk, tv talk and movie talk. Now most of my conversations with her are her asking for advice on if she should tell the guy shes been on 3 dates with that whilst shes been dating him shes been shagging some other guy.

    Does she ever follow my advice, **** no.
  2. TheHansa's Avatar
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    We used to have fun conversations about how **** politics/football is, game talk, tv talk and movie talk. Now most of my conversations with her are her asking for advice on if she should tell the guy shes been on 3 dates with that whilst shes been dating him shes been shagging some other guy.

    Sounds riveting.
  3. That Bearded Man's Avatar
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    I look down a bit on the girls who go on about their boyfriend annoying them even thought he is a complete tosser, and she's pregnant from him.

    My opinion of sluts has changed a bit though, I met a bi at university, she was shagging older guys, older girls, you name it. Then again, she is a lovely person, funny, eloquent, well-educated etc.

    That taught me not to be judgemental
  4. Id and Ego seek's Avatar
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    Hedonists gonna hedon.
  5. saim101's Avatar
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    I dont h8 them dude, i just think they should be concentrating on studying because in my eyes 90% of "too" sexually active people end up on the doll which comes out of the HUGE amount of taxes my parents pay -_-.
    Find a new friend or sleep with her .
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    Don't hate the player, hate the game.
  7. Eveiebaby's Avatar
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    As long as they are responsible both emotionally and phyically, I dont know what you're going on about. People are either mean/horrible people or they arent. How many times they like to have sex with whoever they want doesnt come into it.
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    I don't have enough energy to care. I either change the subject or reduce the about I talk to them because it gets tedious listening to the same thing all the time

    Have all the sex you want... just keep the stories to yourself
    Last edited by chickenonsteroids; 15-04-2012 at 12:50.
  9. Knighted's Avatar
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    (Original post by Eveiebaby)
    As long as they are responsible both emotionally and phyically, I dont know what you're going on about. People are either mean/horrible people or they arent. How many times they like to have sex with whoever they want doesnt come into it.
    I don't think you can group the entire human race into horrible people and not horrible people.

    Also did you read my post? I wasn't moaning about how many times people are having sex with other people. I get a fair amount myself but I feel no need/get irritated by people who act like sluts then moan when people start treating them/calling them sluts. Especially when said sluts think its fine because "They all used condoms."

    Its also bizarre that people seem to think its "cool" to spend a large portion of your life in a bed humping, bumping and generally making bizarre noises. Why can't people spend time together without doing it and then having to inform the whole world that "YES I HAVE JUST HAD SEX!"
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    (Original post by Knighted)
    I don't think you can group the entire human race into horrible people and not horrible people.

    Also did you read my post? I wasn't moaning about how many times people are having sex with other people. I get a fair amount myself but I feel no need/get irritated by people who act like sluts then moan when people start treating them/calling them sluts. Especially when said sluts think its fine because "They all used condoms."

    Its also bizarre that people seem to think its "cool" to spend a large portion of your life in a bed humping, bumping and generally making bizarre noises. Why can't people spend time together without doing it and then having to inform the whole world that "YES I HAVE JUST HAD SEX!"
    As long as its not affecting me idrc.
  11. Pen Island's Avatar
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    No, it's their life.
    Maybe if that's all they talk about they might get a bit annoying but I don't see the problem as long as they're happy and safe about it.
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    (Original post by Knighted)
    I get a fair amount myself but I feel no need/get irritated by people who act like sluts then moan when people start treating them/calling them sluts.
    Perhaps they don't like what the work 'slut' suggests. You can be promiscuous without having no self-respect; you can be promiscuous without having low standards.
  13. Tahooper's Avatar
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    Somebody's jealous that they aren't part of a **** buddy group :sexface:
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    No.
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    (Original post by Knighted)
    I don't think you can group the entire human race into horrible people and not horrible people.

    Also did you read my post? I wasn't moaning about how many times people are having sex with other people. I get a fair amount myself but I feel no need/get irritated by people who act like sluts then moan when people start treating them/calling them sluts. Especially when said sluts think its fine because "They all used condoms."

    Its also bizarre that people seem to think its "cool" to spend a large portion of your life in a bed humping, bumping and generally making bizarre noises. Why can't people spend time together without doing it and then having to inform the whole world that "YES I HAVE JUST HAD SEX!"
    That sentence reminded me of this song :rofl:

    Nah, I don't really hate them, their life and that, but I might sometimes get a bit jealous at how they can attract so many people
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    (Original post by Id and Ego seek)
    Hedonists gonna hedon.
    "Hedon is a small town and civil parish in Holderness in the East Riding of Yorkshire"
  17. ~Kat~'s Avatar
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    Oh shut up, just because someone enjoys sex doesn't mean they're 'too' sexually active, whatever the hell that is.

    Sounds like slut shaming to me :mad:

    And if you're concerned you and your friend are drifting apart then just talk to her about it and if she's truly your friend she'll understand.
  18. Brutal Honesty's Avatar
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    I don't mind people who have plenty of sex but don't talk about it in public. I don't talk about my sex life in public because sex isn't a new thing nor is it an interesting topic of discussion. Some people seem to think they're the first ones to discover it.
  19. Eveiebaby's Avatar
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    (Original post by Knighted)
    I don't think you can group the entire human race into horrible people and not horrible people.

    Also did you read my post? I wasn't moaning about how many times people are having sex with other people. I get a fair amount myself but I feel no need/get irritated by people who act like sluts then moan when people start treating them/calling them sluts. Especially when said sluts think its fine because "They all used condoms."

    Its also bizarre that people seem to think its "cool" to spend a large portion of your life in a bed humping, bumping and generally making bizarre noises. Why can't people spend time together without doing it and then having to inform the whole world that "YES I HAVE JUST HAD SEX!"
    What do you mean "act like sluts"? You sound like you have a attitude that smacks of either religious dogma or immaturity. As long as they are being emotionally responsible and not having a load of unprotected sex with strangers, I don't see what the problem is.

    Sex has nothing to do with "coolness". Some people have higher sex drives than others. It's not a crime. Sometimes I dont like sexual attention, sometimes I'm insatiably craving it.

    In the case of people moaning about others judging them on their exploits, I guess you should just be a bit more selective about who you tell, if you must tell someone. However, not everyone's judgemental like that and I don't know many people who a screaming from the rooftops about every night of passion. It's a bit childish.
    Last edited by Eveiebaby; 15-04-2012 at 13:54.
  20. Iron Lady's Avatar
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    Re: Anyone else hate the "too" sexually active people?
    I don't hate them, but I don't approve of the choices they make.
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