[Anonymous]

Ive had sex with several women but Ive never even been close to coming during sex. I can come when I masturbate but not during sex. I had phimosis which I think added to the problem but Ive had that sorted now due to circumcision. One woman that has had me even remotely close to coming was an ex of mine that I was hugely attracted to sexually I think that if I did not have Phimosis at the time I would have been able to come with her. Ive noticed that when Im not attracted to a women Im having sex with that the chances of ejaculating are less. It seems to be a psychological issue any ideas of how to overcome this. No pun intended

[Anonymous]

I'm a girl, but I'm the same, to porn/masturbation I come easy but with real life men, I really struggle to reach orgasm. I always get close but never the final edge. I think, maybe spice it up with different positions or sex toys? I know vibrators would get me over the edge, and I know there are little vibrators to trigger the male g spot?

[Anonymous]

I'm a guy, the first few times I had sex I couldn't ejaculate which resulted in long, boring thrusting... haha. I'd say start masturbating less. Do you tense your legs/body when ejaculating when masturbating? I noticed I did although I'm not sure whether this has anything to do with it. We probably are just less sensitive, so **** less and there shouldn't be anything stopping you...

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm a guy, the first few times I had sex I couldn't ejaculate which resulted in long, boring thrusting... haha. I'd say start masturbating less. Do you tense your legs/body when ejaculating when masturbating? I noticed I did although I'm not sure whether this has anything to do with it. We probably are just less sensitive, so **** less and there shouldn't be anything stopping you...

I Tried not masturbating at all when I was with my ex and I still couldnt come during sex.

[jimbo139]

Stop fapping. After a while it'll be like a land mine ready to go off at the slightest disturbance. Probelm solved.

[wateva]

just get a mate over to shag your girl and you can sit in the corner fapping, you'll jiz, your mate gets a free ****, and your girl gets a facial, everyones a winnnner!

[boba]

wait, why do you have sex with people your not attracted to

[Anonymous]

(Original post by boba)
wait, why do you have sex with people your not attracted to

For the sake of it

[QwentyJ]

Delayed Ejaculation.

[ALazyThracian]

I agree with the above post: Delayed Ejaculation.

The fact that your are circumcised could be the problem, you could have less sensitivity in your penis.

My advice is stop masturbation for around 5-7 before you think your going to have sex and you'll be fine.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by ALazyThracian)
I agree with the above post: Delayed Ejaculation.

The fact that your are circumcised could be the problem, you could have less sensitivity in your penis.

My advice is stop masturbation for around 5-7 before you think your going to have sex and you'll be fine.

The circumcision has actually increased sensitivity and stopping masturbation a few days before sex I have tried and it does not work

[boba]

well maybe ask a doctor