[T-go]

(Original post by sophisticated)
Given that the OP has gone silent, I think we can assume that she didn't realise that she was being such a hypocrite

Hellooo, it's me the person that negged your comment.
I tried to reply to your PM, but it said something about me having reached my stored private message quota, so I thought I had replied when in fact I... had not.

Anyway, I just wanted tell you that it was just a neg, there is no need to get all uptight and attempt to out me as the OP (just to clarify I'm not). I just wanted to say I really think you need to man up about negs and TSR in general. I've now read what you've put and I only negged you because I thought you were being unnecessarily self-righteous. The OP hadn't commented on the thread since the OP, so she didn't really "go quiet" as she wasn't interacting with the thread anyway.

And to the OP, it isn't fair to have one rule for him and another for you.

[kunoichi]

If you love this guy why would you try to stop him having such an amazing experience?

If you stop him going he is going to resent you. I didnt go on a two week trip to china because of an ex bf and now i really regret it.

[k9markiii]

If you need to ask whether you're being unreasonable the answer is probably yes. You don't notice your own short comings as much as other people's so to even write a thread you must be pretty sure.

[masterfulprof]

Yes. The key self-identified phrase is "unreasonable girlfriend." For some reason, you want to be one of these. You are. Misson accomplished.