[elixira]

Turn ons: bikers (motor or normal!), enigma, pretty much everything under the dictionary definition of 'emo kid', genuineness/decentness, strong jawline, pelvic 'V'

Turn offs: general shallowness or elitism in any way, protein shake muscles, stupid trends like chinos, hooliganism, guys who hound girls in nightclubs

[elixira]

(Original post by Anonymous)
You see, I read the girls' turn ons and stuff, and I'm pretty sure every one of them would like my personality..

Yet whenever I ask a girl out, they say no, and never find out that they might like me..

I've seen long hair as a turn off. How long is "long"? My hair is like, longer than almost every guy I meet, but its not like, really long. Touches my collar at the back, my jaw line at the sides and the fringe will come down to the end of my nose. I swear appearances matter waayy more than people let on.

That is perfect boy hair length.

[redferry]

Turn Ons: kind, left-wing politically, Northern, funny, dark hair, stubble

Turn-offs: Arrogance, selfishness, tory, body hair (especially back hair), being a misogynist, muscles in copious amounts, being boring, religion, prejudice.

[Iron Lady]

(Original post by redferry)
Turn Ons: kind, left-wing politically, Northern, funny, dark hair, stubble

Turn-offs: Arrogance, selfishness, tory, body hair (especially back hair), being a misogynist, muscles in copious amounts, being boring, religion, prejudice.

What's wrong with those who hold right wing beliefs?

[redferry]

(Original post by Iron Lady)
What's wrong with those who hold right wing beliefs?

We would argue. A lot.
For me supporting a right wing party is so at odds with who I am as a person that I just couldn't be with someone selfish enough to swing that way politically.

[Iron Lady]

(Original post by redferry)
We would argue. A lot.
For me supporting a right wing party is so at odds with who I am as a person that I just couldn't be with someone selfish enough to swing that way politically.

Fair enough.

But right wing supporters are not selfish!

[redferry]

(Original post by Iron Lady)
Fair enough.

But right wing supporters are not selfish!

The most common argument I hear from right wing people my age for supporting the Tory party is 'well my parents worked hard for their money so why shouldn't they keep it' and 'well I will be in the earning bracket for tax cuts to benefit me when I graduate'. Just no.

[amyshamblesxx]

Literate
Stylish
Kissable
Quiet

[jellybean_]

Turn ons: Smelling nice, good hygiene, short hair, tattoos, nice shoes, having drive/ambition,Sporty, able to make a decent cuppa tea

Turn offs: Long and/or dirty nails, bad breath, B.O (bad hygiene in general..), Pushover, Long hair, Aggressiveness, Laziness.

[animalnitrate]

Turn on's - cheekbones, jaws, noses, fairly good taste in music, books and clothes, wit, strong opinions, passion

Turn off's - bland faces, long hair, being a "LAD", close mindedness

[Goody2Shoes-x]

Turn On
Personality - Geekiness! I love geekiness I'm such a dork myself that it would be weird for me to go out with a really straight laced hipster... plus, I think geekiness shows a strength in personality and confidence - you're not ashamed of who you are. I find that really sexy.

Appearance - I have a thing for pale, skinny dark haired guys... Cillian Murphy is probably the epitome of sexiness for me.

Turn Off
Personality - Arrogance. This is the one trait that really grates my nerves like some sort of metaphorical cheese grater. It's SO off putting! Seriously, if you love yourself so much, why bother trying to pull someone else?

Appearance - I'm not too fussed on appearance tbh, although I like dark haired guys I'm not against dating blondes or redheads or anything. I suppose the biggest turn off for me would be bad hygiene. There really is no excuse.

[weusedtowait]

Turn On
Personality I tend to either like people very outwardly confident or very shy/awkward (though you can be those things and still be confident in yourself.) Respectful, open-minded, mature, sarcastic, comfortable in themselves/their beliefs, funny (especially if they have a dry sense of humour), ~intense, enthusiastic (I especially love it when someone gets excited about something and starts rambling about it.)

Appearance - Girls: I love curves, someone like Scarlett Johansson or Jennifer Lawrence has the kind of figure I find most attractive. I love either very pale skin or mixed-race girls. Long hair, soft facial features. And I'm a sucker for girls with full lips and Afro-Caribbean hair. But when it comes to down to it, it's not like any of these are must-haves, girls don't need these things for me to find them attractive. Boys: Hmm, I have a less obvious type with guys I think. I tend to prefer dark hair, a suggestive smile, expressive face, someone well-toned/defined but not TOO muscly.

Turn Off
Personality - Narrow-mindedness, misogyny, any kind of prejudice, immaturity, being judgemental. Oh! Also, people who are passive - I can be quite dominant/assertive and I prefer the dynamic with someone who's the same, if not it just feels unequal, I don't want to be with someone who'll let me boss them around, there needs to be more of a balance.

Appearance - I'm really not sure of anything in specific, apart from anyone on the extreme ends of the weight scale, guys who are too muscular etc. In terms of style, I don't like it when either guys or girls look too unnatural (like the TOWIE cast, for example) - but it's not a deal breaker or anything, I can still fancy people who dress/make themselves up like that, I'd just prefer it if they were more natural.

[SillyMilly]

Turn on : Intelligent, chatty, funny ( I like the guys who can make every situation into a joke ) modest and a deep thinker like me, patient and understanding

Looks- I like both ends of the spectrum, so rockey kinda guys, bit of stubble, tattoos, chinos , leather jackets, beanie hats and then i adore a man in a suit, smart, clean shaven, sexy

Turn off- Massive ego, Vainity, a guy who spends longer in the mirror than me, weedy guys just dont do it for me, lazy men, and baggy clothes and guys who think every girl will drop their knickers as soon as they see them

[Crimmy]

Turn ons:

Appearance:

-stunning eyes
-pretty face
-strong, but not butch


Personality:

-driven
-intelligent
-funny
-selfless
-confident
-practical
-arty


Turn offs:

Appearance:

-fat (as in fat fat, not a bit overweight)
-annoying vioce

Personality:
-naive
-stuck up
-being too girly

[SimplyEccentric]

Turn Ons:

Personality:

Honest
Good sense of humour/witty
Willing to go camping/paintballing/ice-skating/go-karting with me
A decent level of intelligence
Plays PS3 with me
Will have lazy days in bed
Cooks for me (even if it tastes disgusting)
Not afraid to be himself
Helpful
Spontaneous
Faithful
Considerate
Quite laidback
Experimental

Appearance:

Has their own style (doesn't particularly matter what style it is)
Longer hair
That little trail of happy hair wandering down from the bellybutton...
Tattoos
Piercings

Turn Offs:

Personality:

Overbearing/clingy
Extreme insecurity regarding relationship
Nicknames like "babe" - I prefer something more personal/sentimental
Lack of respect/manners
Saying "I love you" when you don't really mean it

Appearance:

Bad hygiene
Muscles freak me out somewhat...I don't know why...

[Soph(:]

LOL I love how long everyone's lists are

[Soph(:]

(Original post by redferry)
The most common argument I hear from right wing people my age for supporting the Tory party is 'well my parents worked hard for their money so why shouldn't they keep it' and 'well I will be in the earning bracket for tax cuts to benefit me when I graduate'. Just no.

Quite a true quote though. If you work hard you recieve

[Soph(:]

(Original post by Dee Leigh)
Turn On
Personality
Good sense of humour and funny
Intelligence
Can remain positive most of the time
Caring
Ambitious
Assertive
Honest
Trustworthy
Good manners
Organised
Gives me space when I need it
Spontaneous
Open-minded
Comforting
Considerate
Emotional depth
Confidence
Self-esteem
Listens to what you have to say
Respectful
Calm
Kind
Gentle
Humble
Gentleman-like
Loving
Appearance
Stubble
Bit muscly
Taller than me
Looks fit and healthy
Dark hair
Handsome
Great smile
Takes a bit of pride in appearance

Turn Off
Personality
Arrogance
Ignorance
Negativity
Always miserable
Toxic
Miserable 24/7
Nasty
Mean
No morals
Condescending
Clingy
Overprotective/controlling/oppressive
Aggressive
Authoritarian
Narrow-minded
Bad habits
Racist
Passive
Always making negative comments about EVERY SINGLE THING (especially when it's towards you)
Putting me/others down
Sexist
No sense of humour
Rude
Violent - TOTAL NO NO
Disrespectful
CHEATER
Nit-picky
Expecting me to be something/someone I'm not
Fake
Not valuing my opinion
Ignoring me
Inconsiderate
Showing conditional love or unloving
Appearance
Fake tan
Smelly
Overweight
Too skinny
Messy hair
Dirty clothes
Bad hygiene
Dirty
Bad teeth
Bad nails
Monobrow
Bad breath
Lack of pride in appearance

Easy to please haha

[Spontogical]

(Original post by Soph(:)
Quite a true quote though. If you work hard you recieve

If you work smart, you receive.

[redferry]

(Original post by Soph(:)
Quite a true quote though. If you work hard you recieve

Oh because someone working for minimum wage their whole lives doesn't work hard at all. The amount of effort you put into your job does not correlate with annual earnings I am afraid, and anyone that thinks otherwise is frankly stupid.