I won't be able to have kids/get married. What should I do?

My point in posting the pic is to show that everyone has their imperfections, their good and bad days, and we just need to accept that. I'm personally content with my looks, other than the fact I'd like to be slimmer, but I'm working on that. If I were to obsess over every little detail about myself that's not perfect, I'd drive myself bonkers because as you pointed out, I'm certainly no stunner. And I say (or type) this with a smile because I'm happy just being me. It's my face I'm used to it and that's good enough for me.

Build a career? Guys will line up outside the door when you've got power.

I'm 18 years old, still single, never had a boyfriend, still a virgin never been kissed etc. I am extremely and repulsively ugly. I have been told this by people at school and I am 100% sure this is true. Call me insecure, but only people who look like me are very insecure with themselves.

When I was younger, I was very delusional. I believed that one day I'd marry a rich and attractive man and we'd have kids and live a nice life. Total bull****.

I was even told once by boy, that I'm too ugly to get married. He asked his friends if they agreed with him and they said yes. Mind you, this came out of the blue.

What can I do? I'd love to have kids, I adore babysitting my neighbor's kids and teaching them.

I also believe I'd be a good wife too. I can cook well, I'm intelligent and hard working, I listen, I care, I make people laugh. I'm always supportive of people in my life. I do selfless things all the time.

But since I am shocking unattractive, I am as they say "forever alone".

Its heartbreaking because I want to live a regular life, but I can't. Whenever I see couples/women with children/new born babies I can't help but feel depressed.

I used to think like you, OP, when I was 18. This is me now:



I'm 21 now - it's been a slow process but I'm learning to accept myself. I've been with my partner for 2 and a half years now and we plan to have kids together in the future, something I thought would never happen to me. Someone out there will love you as you are.

What's wrong with you? You are nor ugly!

But, you aren't ugly. Most of what you can do is fix with makeup. Also, you purposely took a bad picture of yourself. How the hell does that count? do you look like that all the time? I doubt it.

It's just a self pitying post in my mind. Like hey OP I'm not stunning looking, but average I have the same problems as you. You don't have the same problems as OP as you aren't ugly.

See the problem is if all you have is imperfections.

Depends what you mean by "ugly".

You should never be in a relationship if you don't find the person sexually attractive.

I'm 18 years old, still single, never had a boyfriend, still a virgin never been kissed etc. I am extremely and repulsively ugly. I have been told this by people at school and I am 100% sure this is true. Call me insecure, but only people who look like me are very insecure with themselves.

When I was younger, I was very delusional. I believed that one day I'd marry a rich and attractive man and we'd have kids and live a nice life. Total bull****.

I was even told once by boy, that I'm too ugly to get married. He asked his friends if they agreed with him and they said yes. Mind you, this came out of the blue.

What can I do? I'd love to have kids, I adore babysitting my neighbor's kids and teaching them.

I also believe I'd be a good wife too. I can cook well, I'm intelligent and hard working, I listen, I care, I make people laugh. I'm always supportive of people in my life. I do selfless things all the time.

But since I am shocking unattractive, I am as they say "forever alone".

Its heartbreaking because I want to live a regular life, but I can't. Whenever I see couples/women with children/new born babies I can't help but feel depressed.

So...doesn't that make you a bit of a hypocrite then? You make all these posts moaning about guys going after the girls they're sexually attracted to when you presumably do the same.

I think it. It's taken a long time for me to get to the point where I think "meh, maybe I'm not that hideous after all" and I'll settle for average.

I just wanted the OP to know that I've been where she is, and it does get better

Sorry, but OP isn't that smart. C in GCSE maths that takes little intelligent to get an A in it. Literally, you should be able to turn up to the exam and get an A.

That isn't true anyway. Personally, you would want both i.e. someone with looks and a career. But, even then I suppose it would be better for the girl to have looks, particularly since you don't want ugly children and most men want children. Also, who is going to look after the children, I doubt the girl who works every bloody hour to get power is going to have them.

Maybe that works for guys, which is because most women are money grabbing. But, men aren't because they can make more money than women easily.

That's very nice but I must be uglier than you. Hearing that makes me feel worse because clearly, you lost your virginity at 18.

Have you ever been called ugly before? If not, then you're just pathetic and insecure, and you will never understand how it feels to be ugly.