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  1. Anonymous's Avatar
    Are you a virgin?
    If so, how old are you? Is it by choice?

    By the way, I lost my virqinity at 16 but regret it now. Wish I had waited as it was one drunken mistake!
  2. Kage's Avatar
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    Re: Are you a virqin?
    24, and yes, but no it isn't, but it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I don't know anything different so how could I be bothered by it?
    Last edited by Kage; 25-04-2012 at 16:31.
  3. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Are you a virqin?
    18 and yeah, I am. It doesn't bother me too much.
  4. abc101's Avatar
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    Re: Are you a virqin?
    Yes, 22, and yes. I'm very relieved I didn't lose it when I had the opportunity, it would have been a huge mistake. I'm waiting until I'm with the man I'm going to spend the rest of my life with.
  5. chocolate buttons's Avatar
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    Re: Are you a virgin?
    Yes, I'm 17
    I haven't had a proper boyfriend before
  6. xXHolly_90Xx's Avatar
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    Re: Are you a virgin?
    I'm 21, lost mine at 20 and regretted it who it was with! But can't change it so I don't look back on it
  7. captainaesthetic's Avatar
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    Re: Are you a virgin?
    Lost it at 16.

    I think it's silly how people overemphasise it's importance, if you lose it, you lose it. There's no 'perfect' moment to do so, and it's great fun so why hang around waiting for 'that special guy/girl' when you can live in the present.

    Virginity is just a concept, it only has meaning if you give it meaning.
  8. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Are you a virgin?
    Yes, im almost 21. It does bother me slightly.
  9. restoration's Avatar
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    Re: Are you a virgin?
    No but I don't think virginity matters at all really, do it when your ready/comfortable I regret some of my experiences... I wouldn't look down on someone or not date them because they were a virgin part of the fun is exploring together.
  10. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Are you a virgin?
    Yeah, I'm 16. I'm not too bothered waiting until I find the person who is right for me who I trust though.
  11. Jabberwox's Avatar
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    Re: Are you a virgin?
    I'm 20 and I am. I've decided I want to lose it to someone I love ^^
  12. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Are you a virgin?
    im 21 a girl and still a virgin....not really by choice but cos im frigid....its depressing. im scared to have sex...really annoying
  13. Billton's Avatar
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    Re: Are you a virgin?
    Lost it at 15 and definitley regretted it! I didn't start enjoying sex until I was 18 :suith:

    EDIT: neg? For being 15 or for only enjoying sex when I fell in love? :love:
    Last edited by Billton; 27-04-2012 at 22:06.
  14. slacker07906's Avatar
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    God, I get really mad when girl's say they are embarrassd by the fact they are a virqin! There is nothing wrong with being a virqin! Least that you can say you have self repect and dignity!
  15. lizziefree's Avatar
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    Re: Are you a virgin?
    Lost it at 18.
    Been with him a year and half now, never looked back.
    Even if we broke up, I would not regret it. Simply because i was comfortable, in a loving and trusting relationship and was not feeling pressured into it. I did it because we both wanted it. That is all I wanted.
  16. Capo_Kid's Avatar
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    Re: Are you a virgin?
    Lost it at 15 to the girl I loved and don't regret it. I'm 22 and have been having safe, fun, casual sex with multiple partners over the past 4 years and am loving it
  17. KTCI's Avatar
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    Re: Are you a virgin?
    Nah, lost it at the age of 20 with the man I loved. We broke up after two years together, but I don't regret it.
  18. kirstyoneil's Avatar
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    Re: Are you a virgin?
    I lost it at 15, and I definitely don't regret it. I'm 16 now, and coming this June me and my boyfriend will have been together 2 years now. I love him to pieces :heart:
  19. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Are you a virgin?
    NO lost it when I was 18, to a random guy. I never saw him/spoke to him again.

    I feel **** about it sometimes, but I was very drunk that night and I shouldn't have gone back to his..but it's life and you gotta move on/
  20. shy-girl666's Avatar
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    Re: Are you a virgin?
    i lost it at 18 with a friend of mine (who wasn't a virgin)....... we both knew it was just sex and now 2 years later i've got a bf and he's not long been in a relationship with someone too

    i've never regreted it (but i never regret anything i've done) im glad i did it the way i did.

    OP dont live with any regrets, what's happened has happened. dont dwell on it x
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