Can guys and girls really be 'just friends'?
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View Poll Results: Can a man and a woman be just 'best/very close friends'?
I'm a Girl - Yes they can 89 37.55% I'm a Girl - No they can't 21 8.86% I'm a Boy - Yes they can 84 35.44% I'm a Boy - No they can't 43 18.14%
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Re: Can guys and girls really be 'just friends'?
What does "just friends" mean?
Guys, for the most part, aren't in friendships so they can ask you out - they are friends with you, because they enjoy being friends and don't have some secret agenda. Finding someone sexually attractive doesn't mean you can't have a meaningful non-romantic relationship with them. -
Re: Can guys and girls really be 'just friends'?
I noticed girls always generally say yes when asked if guys and girls can be friends, but guys generally say no. I cant speak from a female point of view, but as a male, yes we can be friends and I have been friends for years with some. But if there was an opportunity to go sexually with any of my girl mates, I would definitely take it. Guys will **** a millions girls per day if they had the opportunity but let just say that its the girl that make sure its at the 'friends level'.
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Re: Can guys and girls really be 'just friends'?
Easily. The world has a population of 7 billion, you are not going to fancy every guy you interact with, so that means that you could just be friends with several of them. I have a couple of male friends and that's all there is to it, it's fine, no chemistry, no "sexual tension", no awkwardness, it's the same as it is with my female friends. One of them keeps telling me to ask his friend out, actually.
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Re: Can guys and girls really be 'just friends'?naive.(Original post by redferry)
Of course. Most of my friends are male. Also, just because you would have sex with them if you could doesn't mean you aren't friends
Although I know none of my (all male) housemates feel that way about me. Thankfully!
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Re: Can guys and girls really be 'just friends'?Not in any way, we are all really close. I've lived with them for 3 years, and they have previously responded to people joking about us getting together with comparing me to both a man and their sister.(Original post by Dirac Delta Function)
naive.
Guys don't want to sleep with every girl they are friends with, people who think otherwise just do not have close enough female friends to know that this can happen.
I think you are the naive one.