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    Hi people. Recently we welcomed a foreigner girl for a week in my house and I'm the only guy in my house.
    Let me start with, the first time we saw eachother I was shirtless with pants so it was abit embarrassing and since then I barely had the balls to talk to her and also don't want my sisters to think I'm hiting on her or anything but she seems like a nice girl and she's always looking at me with that face "why doesn't he speak to me?" and I don't want to leave the wrong impression!
    I mean, if she knows my name, it sure wasn't me who told her!
    What do I do?
    Thanks
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    ...talk to her?
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    The well known 'why doesn't he speak to me' face.
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    (Original post by Manitude)
    ...talk to her?
    Yea but it feels weird with my sisters around and her image of me semi-naked.


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    The well known 'why doesn't he speak to me' face.
    yea, you're joking or being serious?
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    (Original post by AS4P)
    Yea but it feels weird with my sisters around and her image of me semi-naked.

    It would be more weird to never talk to someone you're living with without good reason.
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    (Original post by Manitude)
    It would be more weird to never talk to someone you're living with without good reason.
    This. Just laugh off the whole semi-naked thing.
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    you should have sex with her.. but so she doesnt want more..

    have with sex with her... but do it...

    NOTORIOUSLY!!
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    Tell her how you played for Porto.
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    I'm a foreign student in a french house and I can say that it takes a while to actually open up to people (i.e. talk or make contact). Just be nice and ask if she wants to go out, or even just watch a film.
    Also, what's her level of english, she might feel it's not good enough to speak to you, in which case make it known she can make all the mistakes you want. I can say from personal knowledge that it's pretty **** when people rattle to you, realise you haven't fully understood then just give up (worst of all is when they tell everyone their opinions on your language skills...)
    Sorry if i went on a bit, finally can tell people how they should really treat a foreign student
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    (Original post by Manitude)
    It would be more weird to never talk to someone you're living with without good reason.
    That's a good point but I guess I'm lacking of a good start up. I mean, I say Hi everyday but probably nothing else. My aunt already told me why don't I speak much because I'm the best english speaker in my house lol.
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    This is one of the stupidest threads i've ever seen.

    Just TALK to her...
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    have you tried fully naked?
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    (Original post by a.partridge)
    have you tried fully naked?
    ahahah, no :|
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    let her be the one shirtless next time
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    (Original post by a.partridge)
    have you tried fully naked?
    LAD
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    (Original post by AS4P)
    Hi people. Recently we welcomed a foreigner girl for a week in my house and I'm the only guy in my house.
    Let me start with, the first time we saw eachother I was shirtless with pants so it was abit embarrassing and since then I barely had the balls to talk to her and also don't want my sisters to think I'm hiting on her or anything but she seems like a nice girl and she's always looking at me with that face "why doesn't he speak to me?" and I don't want to leave the wrong impression!
    I mean, if she knows my name, it sure wasn't me who told her!
    What do I do?
    Thanks
    If it's just one week I wouldn't bother really, unless you have some feelings for her. But, if she is going to stay there for a really long time, you have to speak to her, just explain to her it was an accident when she saw you in your pants.
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    Something is telling me OP is a bit of an awkward social retard... No offence.
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    (Original post by AS4P)
    Hi people. Recently we welcomed a foreigner girl for a week in my house and I'm the only guy in my house.
    Let me start with, the first time we saw eachother I was shirtless with pants so it was abit embarrassing and since then I barely had the balls to talk to her and also don't want my sisters to think I'm hiting on her or anything but she seems like a nice girl and she's always looking at me with that face "why doesn't he speak to me?" and I don't want to leave the wrong impression!
    I mean, if she knows my name, it sure wasn't me who told her!
    What do I do?
    Thanks
    Just talk too her, she is probably more worried/ anxious about being in a foreign country than seeing you semi naked (probably would not even remember it); and it would be quite weird if your blatantly ignoring her even though your living together.
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    **** her.
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    grow a pair, and man up and talk to her.. its just a girl.. ive stayed in foreign families, and its so awkward and really depressing if you just exchange glances or polite hellos to one another

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