[QUOTE="Anonymous;37448202"]But I did explain. He then said he understood, and was better with contacting me. Now, for the last two weeks or so it's went back to the way it was before.
If I have already discussed it with him, what more can I say? It just makes me feel like he's not listening/doesn't care enough to be considerate.
On nagging: I merely asked him to let me know if he still wanted to meet up(as he had suggested it), which was met with a response a day later. Then when I respond asking what time and where, he replies over 5 hours later only when I contact him again[/I. It is really annoying, and makes me feel like not bothering at all.
Can I just ask, are all men like this or something? I think the majority of them are just born inconsiderate. I love my boyfriend a lot, and I know he loves me too, but he's exactly the same and always has been. Although he's done at lot worse than that.
We now live together, one evening he says he's going out to see a friend for a couple of hours and he'll see me around 10 or 11. Ok cool. 11 comes and goes. But I'm not worried. But then it got later and later. Basically, he didn't get home until 5:30 in the morning. By this point, it was light outside, and he'd been gone without a word since 6 the previous evening. I must have rang him a stupid amount of times, texted him number of times, and he never once got back to me to let me know if he was ok, or what the hell was going on.
I honestly believe men are generally just lazy and inconsiderate. It doesn't make them bad, it just seems to be the way they are. I don't know of one man that isn't like this. None. Not young or old. They're all seem to be the same.
The sheer amount of girls that write on thestudentroom asking what they should do because their boyfriend basically doesn't get back to them is ridiculous.
Basically, there isn't an answer anyone on here can give you, it could be any number of things or nothing at all. If you talk to him about it, he'll probably tell you. But I doubt its anything you did wrong, most likely he's just being thoughtless.