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    This girl and I have been uni classmates for three years now, and over the years have on-off fancied each other. Last night we finally got together but it was just a calamity. I was quite drunk so was only about 80% up, and she was quite dry and tight and in the end we just called it quits because nothing really happened.

    Now my problem is that she leaves for good this week and, while neither of us are looking for a relationship, I really don't want to leave things the way they are because I like her too much for that.

    Any suggestions?
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    See if she's interested in arranging a sober bed date?
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    (Original post by unprinted)
    See if she's interested in arranging a sober bed date?
    It was so awkward when I left that I'm almost certain that wouldn't happen.
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    Maybe it's just not meant to happen. You could always just ask to hang out and see how it goes, you don't have to say 'let's have sex!' or anything too forward. If it happens, it happens.
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    Best thing to do is try and have a laugh with her about it! Then maybe she'd be up for trying again when there's no awkwardness
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    Be a man and talk about it, she will respect you all the more for it. Let her know how you feel. Have a laugh about it but dont take the mickey.


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