Having a convo in the lift or not?
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Having a convo in the lift or not?
So I live in a flat block and there's this girl who's pretty nice.
I've only seen her in the bus stop but I know she lives in my flat block.
I'm on floor 1 and so she's probably in floor 2 and above so she'll take the lift
If I see her in the flat block on the way to the lift, do I
A:
Me: Hey
Girl: Hi
Me: You alright?
Girl: Yeah fine thanks, you?
Me: Yeah I'm good.
And that will probably be that, since I'm on floor 1 and it takes 5 secs to get there
or do I go for option B which is to not say anything at all but approach her at a different time.
I think there's no point talking to her for 5 secs, then me leaving
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Re: Having a convo in the lift or not?(Original post by pinkangelgirl)
when the lift says ''going up''
why not say ''id much rather be going down on you''

I think she'll be creeped out for eternity since I'm a stranger to her
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Re: Having a convo in the lift or not?
Harold and Kumar, job done.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XBM3E_SVV70Last edited by RichyFrench; 10-05-2012 at 22:45. -
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Re: Having a convo in the lift or not?Such an innocent little "Angel"(Original post by pinkangelgirl)
when the lift says ''going up''
why not say ''id much rather be going down on you''
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Re: Having a convo in the lift or not?So what do you suggest?(Original post by Alpharius)
Kinky
OP, don't just ask her; "how are you?" Has that ever got you a girls number before? -
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Re: Having a convo in the lift or not?...Not "how are you."(Original post by Anonymous)
So what do you suggest?
Try a compliment, perhaps? "Excuse me for asking, but whats that perfume your wearing, its lovely, but I can't place it..."
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Re: Having a convo in the lift or not?Haha thanks man(Original post by Alpharius)
...Not "how are you."
Try a compliment, perhaps? "Excuse me for asking, but whats that perfume your wearing, its lovely, but I can't place it..."
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Re: Having a convo in the lift or not?No problem.(Original post by Anonymous)
Haha thanks man
PS, If you can place the perfume, you win massive brownie points. Shows your attentive
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Re: Having a convo in the lift or not?Sounds good... if you are going for the 'I'm gay, but maybe we can be friends' angle.(Original post by Alpharius)
...Not "how are you."
Try a compliment, perhaps? "Excuse me for asking, but whats that perfume your wearing, its lovely, but I can't place it..."
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Re: Having a convo in the lift or not?This comment sounds good... if your boring.(Original post by Teofilo)
Sounds good... if you are going for the 'I'm gay, but maybe we can be friends' angle.
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Re: Having a convo in the lift or not?
Pretend you're on the phone and whisper to the person on the phone, but make sure she hears you.
"Heh, there's this really hot girl in the lift with me right now. How do I ask for her number?"
"No way! She'll get creeped out if I sing that."
And keeps rambling on a number of things to make her laugh. When she's about to leave the lift, take your phone off and say "No reward for making you laugh?"
Job done. I have personally tried this and it's worked... but turns out she's cheating on her boyfriend lol. -
Re: Having a convo in the lift or not?this.(Original post by fleesaurus)
Pretend you're on the phone and whisper to the person on the phone, but make sure she hears you.
"Heh, there's this really hot girl in the lift with me right now. How do I ask for her number?"
"No way! She'll get creeped out if I sing that."
And keeps rambling on a number of things to make her laugh. When she's about to leave the lift, take your phone off and say "No reward for making you laugh?"
Job done. I have personally tried this and it's worked... but turns out she's cheating on her boyfriend lol.
your not just confined to your option A and B you know
^^ i would find that funny and would certainly grab my attention
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Re: Having a convo in the lift or not?Forgot to add, it only works if the male is relatively good looking. If the female doesn't find you physically attractive, chances are she will be creeped out.(Original post by pinkangelgirl)
this.
your not just confined to your option A and B you know
^^ i would find that funny and would certainly grab my attention
PS: Let me know which lift you'll be using in the future. :PLast edited by fleesaurus; 11-05-2012 at 23:08.