Not sure if course mate hates or fancies me

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    Not sure if course mate hates or fancies me
    I spend quite a lot of time walking to uni with a female course mate who lives close by when we do a project together.

    I used to flirt with her at first but she never did back so I stopped.

    When her house mate invited me over to dinner once she came downstairs and gave me a really fake smile like she was furious I was there.

    Last week I spent a few hours in her house mates bedroom chatting. Her housemate asked if she was ok after as she must have looked visibally different. I could tell something was up too by the sound.

    We passed a few days later at uni and she gave me another fake smile like she struggled to look friendly.

    It seems like she has strong feelings concerning me. But is it love or hate?

    Thanks for taking the time to read and consider this.
  2. jacqueline789's Avatar
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    Re: Not sure if course mate hates or fancies me
    Just ask her.
  3. Just Another Girly's Avatar
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    Re: Not sure if course mate hates or fancies me
    mabey shes got some personal issues going on in her life


    but yeah just ask her
  4. FranticMind's Avatar
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    Re: Not sure if course mate hates or fancies me
    Be really nice. Buy her chocolate and ask her why she has been off recently and if she's ok.

    Works like a charm . (not in a seedy way in a resolve the problem kind of way)
  5. Venomilys's Avatar
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    Re: Not sure if course mate hates or fancies me
    where on earth did you get the impression she like you? she either has personal problems or hates you.
  6. Jordan_1's Avatar
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    Re: Not sure if course mate hates or fancies me
    I knew a girl who hated me too, she would rip the piss out of me, give me evil glares etc etc..

    I also had sex with her after all that...
  7. Mrx123's Avatar
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    Re: Not sure if course mate hates or fancies me
    hate is such a strong word
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