[Anonymous]

So before uni, I want to 'change' because at the moment, everyone who I don't really know in college and people I've never spoken to think I am a bitch

I haven't ever really directly done anything, I don't really speak to anyone and have a few close friends, but everyone always seems to get that impression of me and I don't really understand why?!

Even my best friend, has stood up for me? In telling this guy that I am not actually a bitch, I just come across as one to people who I don't like.

I am the sort of person who is quick to make first impressions of someone and I don't bother getting to know someone if there is something I don't like about them or I know we won't get on. I am quite picky about who I want to talk to and who I want to be friends with? Do you think this is the reason?!

Help tsr, it's really not very nice because it's not even true!

[conormacklin]

stop with the question marks for a start

[Blutooth]

(Original post by Anonymous)
So before uni, I want to 'change' because at the moment, everyone who I don't really know in college and people I've never spoken to think I am a bitch

I haven't ever really directly done anything, I don't really speak to anyone and have a few close friends, but everyone always seems to get that impression of me and I don't really understand why?!

Even my best friend, has stood up for me? In telling this guy that I am not actually a bitch, I just come across as one to people who I don't like.

I am the sort of person who is quick to make first impressions of someone and I don't bother getting to know someone if there is something I don't like about them or I know we won't get on. I am quite picky about who I want to talk to and who I want to be friends with? Do you think this is the reason?!

Help tsr, it's really not very nice because it's not even true!

Not gonna lie, you definitely sound like a bitch. However, I can't tell if you are trolling.

If you wanna man-up maybe you should take up a martial art, or public speaking if you think you're not so quick-witted and assertive in conversation. Really I think you should just be less judgmental and talk to more people.

But I still think you're a troll.

[Sammy95]

(Original post by Anonymous)
So before uni, I want to 'change' because at the moment, everyone who I don't really know in college and people I've never spoken to think I am a bitch

I haven't ever really directly done anything, I don't really speak to anyone and have a few close friends, but everyone always seems to get that impression of me and I don't really understand why?!

Even my best friend, has stood up for me? In telling this guy that I am not actually a bitch, I just come across as one to people who I don't like.

I am the sort of person who is quick to make first impressions of someone and I don't bother getting to know someone if there is something I don't like about them or I know we won't get on. I am quite picky about who I want to talk to and who I want to be friends with? Do you think this is the reason?!

Help tsr, it's really not very nice because it's not even true!

maybe don't judge people too quickly and be more open and nicer towards them but dont seem desperate PLEASE otherwise that will just turn people off a whole lot more!

and maybe you shouldn't be too picky, sometimes in life you wont get many choices and being picky won't help, so learn to appreciate what others have.

try talking and mixing in with different people - just be sure to avoid the "bad" ones (slutty etc.) because people would probably associate you to be like them.

in other words, be more sociable, but avoid mixing in with the wrong crowd.

good luck

[cuckoo99]

from what you decribed about your personality you do sound a bit like a bitch tbh... choosing who you want to talk to lol..... this is your problem : "I am the sort of person who is quick to make first impressions of someone and I don't bother getting to know someone if there is something I don't like about them or I know we won't get on. I am quite picky about who I want to talk to and who I want to be friends with?". Maybe the solution to that would be trying to talk to lots of different people without judging the book by its cover.....

[hamijack]

According to the above image get two automatic shotguns. Let's see anyone call you a bitch then.

On a serious note; yes, it's the prematurely judging people and "not bothering" to get to know them if you find something you don't like about them. That's a very bitchy thing to do. Stop doing that.

[besomebody]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I am the sort of person who is quick to make first impressions of someone and I don't bother getting to know someone if there is something I don't like about them or I know we won't get on. I am quite picky about who I want to talk to and who I want to be friends with? Do you think this is the reason?!

yes.

Is this for real?

[Vian]

So you, a judgemental person, dislike it when others are judgemental towards you? I smell a troll...

Though stupidity fits just as well.

[Mz-Nmh]

You judge people too quickly and want people to stop judging you. Give people a chance. Smile more and it wouldn't hurt to make more conversational effort with your classmates who you don't talk to much for whatever reason. My friends think I'm a bit weird cause I start random conversations with people in college, but it allows me to get to know more people and for them to know me rather than just know my face. So I don't see anything wrong with that, but I guess I'm just confident with speaking to randomers.

[I<3VictoriaJustice]

smack som1 propa hard then draw a willy on his hed

[iSoftie]

(Original post by Anonymous)
So before uni, I want to 'change' because at the moment, everyone who I don't really know in college and people I've never spoken to think I am a bitch

I haven't ever really directly done anything, I don't really speak to anyone and have a few close friends, but everyone always seems to get that impression of me and I don't really understand why?!

Even my best friend, has stood up for me? In telling this guy that I am not actually a bitch, I just come across as one to people who I don't like.

I am the sort of person who is quick to make first impressions of someone and I don't bother getting to know someone if there is something I don't like about them or I know we won't get on. I am quite picky about who I want to talk to and who I want to be friends with? Do you think this is the reason?!

Help tsr, it's really not very nice because it's not even true!

Lol. You sound bitchy.
I mean I don't like a lot of people in my year but I'm not quick on the assumption unless they are just a gimp. You should socialise more and give everyone a chance or they will turn on you. Other than that you remind me of those orange girls who sit at the front of my science chatting **** all day long and wonder/cry how comes they've got a D..

[LeftPeg]

Drop kick them in the skull or do a ninja fight scene like jackie chan and stuff in there ninja and karate fighting films.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by conormacklin)
stop with the question marks for a start

Sorryyy

(Original post by Blutooth)
Not gonna lie, you definitely sound like a bitch. However, I can't tell if you are trolling.

If you wanna man-up maybe you should take up a martial art, or public speaking if you think you're not so quick-witted and assertive in conversation. Really I think you should just be less judgmental and talk to more people.

But I still think you're a troll.

Haha, actually not a troll. And I don't really want to talk to people, I just don't want them to have the impression I am a bitch

(Original post by Sammy95)
maybe don't judge people too quickly and be more open and nicer towards them but dont seem desperate PLEASE otherwise that will just turn people off a whole lot more!

and maybe you shouldn't be too picky, sometimes in life you wont get many choices and being picky won't help, so learn to appreciate what others have.

try talking and mixing in with different people - just be sure to avoid the "bad" ones (slutty etc.) because people would probably associate you to be like them.

in other words, be more sociable, but avoid mixing in with the wrong crowd.

good luck

I don't really want to be more sociable. I prefer having a few friends I don't really like to speak to lots of people lol

(Original post by cuckoo99)
from what you decribed about your personality you do sound a bit like a bitch tbh... choosing who you want to talk to lol..... this is your problem : "I am the sort of person who is quick to make first impressions of someone and I don't bother getting to know someone if there is something I don't like about them or I know we won't get on. I am quite picky about who I want to talk to and who I want to be friends with?". Maybe the solution to that would be trying to talk to lots of different people without judging the book by its cover.....

True, I don't really feel the need or want to talk to different people though

(Original post by iSoftie)
Lol. You sound bitchy.
I mean I don't like a lot of people in my year but I'm not quick on the assumption unless they are just a gimp. You should socialise more and give everyone a chance or they will turn on you. Other than that you remind me of those orange girls who sit at the front of my science chatting **** all day long and wonder/cry how comes they've got a D..

Haha, I am actually on track to get a*a*a, but okay good assumption there...

[iSoftie]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Sorryyy



Haha, actually not a troll. And I don't really want to talk to people, I just don't want them to have the impression I am a bitch



I don't really want to be more sociable. I prefer having a few friends I don't really like to speak to lots of people lol




True, I don't really feel the need or want to talk to different people though



Haha, I am actually on track to get a*a*a, but okay good assumption there...

I smell Troll.

[kka25]

(Original post by iSoftie)
I smell Troll.

I smell a bitch

*the OP of course

[hunky]

(Original post by Anonymous)

Haha, actually not a troll. And I don't really want to talk to people, I just don't want them to have the impression I am a bitch

I don't really want to be more sociable. I prefer having a few friends I don't really like to speak to lots of people lol

True, I don't really feel the need or want to talk to different people though

Haha, I am actually on track to get a*a*a, but okay good assumption there...

I don't think you give the impression of being a bitch, I think you give the impression of being a stuck up judgmental condescending C*NT

[bahjat93]

Once a bitch always a bitch

[iSoftie]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Haha, I am actually on track to get a*a*a, but okay good assumption there...

Case closed.

[neom]

Maybe you have a default bitch face

[Alpharius]

I'll say stupid, and not a troll.

You judge people, and on that judgement refuse to get to know them. You can't stop being a bitch, its who you are.

I genuinely don't think people think before they post these days...