[qwerty_mad]

Theres this girl I quite like and we text each other a fair bit a lo of which is initiated by her. Two days ago it was her exam and the day before I thought of just leaving her to it so she could revise and not feel distracted by me. Plus I don't really believe in luck so don't say 'good luck' to anyone. Anyway on the exam day I was at work in the evening so text her quite late to ask how it went. Although she replied quickly she seems very distant now. Usually she has a vibe about her when texting but that seems gone.

What should I do? Should I text her again knowing I may be annoying her?

[qwerty_mad]

Anyone?

[Soph(:]

She's probably stressed or just being moody that you didn't text her earlier

[qwerty_mad]

(Original post by Soph(:)
She's probably stressed or just being moody that you didn't text her earlier

But after her first exam which didn't go too well she seemed fine with texting me. But after the latest one she was very blunt and after the first reply she took like half an hour to get back to me.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by qwerty_mad)
Theres this girl I quite like and we text each other a fair bit a lo of which is initiated by her. Two days ago it was her exam and the day before I thought of just leaving her to it so she could revise and not feel distracted by me. Plus I don't really believe in luck so don't say 'good luck' to anyone. Anyway on the exam day I was at work in the evening so text her quite late to ask how it went. Although she replied quickly she seems very distant now. Usually she has a vibe about her when texting but that seems gone.

What should I do? Should I text her again knowing I may be annoying her?

Asking how it went is enough tbh... I mean you didn't tex get cause you didn't want to disturb her, and after the exam you actually remembered and text her, so I think she's overreacting a little bit. Maybe she doesn't think the exam went well and is getting stressed? Her behaviour may have nothing to do with you..

Anon because my friends use this forum haha

[Little Hobbit]

It's probably just stress, I'm sure she hasn't fallen out with you. Does she have any more exams? Perhaps she's studying, or busy celebrating. It was only half an hour.

I think you might be reading too much into this.

[dgeorge]

(Original post by qwerty_mad)
Theres this girl I quite like and we text each other a fair bit a lo of which is initiated by her. Two days ago it was her exam and the day before I thought of just leaving her to it so she could revise and not feel distracted by me. Plus I don't really believe in luck so don't say 'good luck' to anyone. Anyway on the exam day I was at work in the evening so text her quite late to ask how it went. Although she replied quickly she seems very distant now. Usually she has a vibe about her when texting but that seems gone.

What should I do? Should I text her again knowing I may be annoying her?

You haven't done anything wrong in this situation. I would say, give her a day or two, and then if she doesn't text back, maybe send her another text. She may just be genuinely caught up with exams

[lad-lad]

Just move onto the next girl on your girl's list.

Why you giving this so much thought (I understand why because you like her so much)?
If guys would take offence at every little thing a girl has done there wouldnt be any relationships.
If she hasn't been in touch just because you haven't texted her before the exam then she is definitely not worth it because she acts like a spoilt child which behaves badly if he doesn't get the toy he wants. Most likely you are giving it too much thought, relax and just wait.

[The_Jammy_Witch]

(Original post by lad-lad)
Just move onto the next girl on your girl's list.

Why you giving this so much thought (I understand why because you like her so much)?
If guys would take offence at every little thing a girl has done there wouldnt be any relationships.
If she hasn't been in touch just because you haven't texted her before the exam then she is definitely not worth it because she acts like a spoilt child which behaves badly if he doesn't get the toy he wants. Most likely you are giving it too much thought, relax and just wait.

This. Also, ask her on a date already. What is all this texting business. Why settle for the friendzone?

[Soph(:]

(Original post by qwerty_mad)
But after her first exam which didn't go too well she seemed fine with texting me. But after the latest one she was very blunt and after the first reply she took like half an hour to get back to me.

I don't know tbh she sounds like she's being moody for no reason! Maybe just text her saying you';; give her space to revise and stuff and wait to see what she says?

[qwerty_mad]

(Original post by The_Jammy_Witch)
This. Also, ask her on a date already. What is all this texting business. Why settle for the friendzone?

She's one of these girls who prefers being friends first. In that respect it's not a problem.

[meganjayne_x]

Exam stress can put a girl in an awful mood! Don't take it personal, let her know you're there for her and if she knows that, there is nothing more you can do !

[Dubs_ski]

Ring her...

[The_Jammy_Witch]

(Original post by qwerty_mad)
She's one of these girls who prefers being friends first. In that respect it's not a problem.

... until she dates someone else because you didn't ask her. :P

[qwerty_mad]

(Original post by The_Jammy_Witch)
... until she dates someone else because you didn't ask her. :P

Hmm, I suppose you have a point there.


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