I am a shy person who has confidence issues and I can't hold long conversations really I'm at Uni and it's a scary experience for someone who's not much of a big talker, all the people that I see can hold conversations easily and my flatmate was saying that I struggle to hold a conversation and I felt a little bad but didn't let it get to me much.....What I want to know is....are there any other people who get shy around people and don't talk much????
I wouldn't worry about it - you are who you are and a lot of the time it depends on the other person, too.
I bet if you were speaking to someone who shared lots of the same interests as you, then you would talk for ages - or maybe not even feel the need to?
Besides, the world needs people like you if everyone was really chatty instead of being more of a listnener, nobody would get a word in edgeways, dont worry about it x
You just need to practice! Once you start doing it more often you will feel more at ease and relaxed at talking to people so it will come naturally!
I'm quite a shy person and never used to be very talkative. I'm still shy but now I can hold a conversation and can be very talkative!