Girls... would this put you off?

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    Girls... would this put you off?
    If a guys foreskin didn't retract? still 'worked' fine but it just didn't retract fully. Mine doesn't and I could get circumcised but don't really like the idea and apparently it hurts loads.
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    Re: Girls... would this put you off?
    It wouldn't put me off, but a circumcised one would.

    Obviously, it is better if all the moving parts are working fully. Have you tried stretching or getting cream from the doctor to help you stretch? Unless you also have a short frenulum, it is usually possible to stretch the foreskin over time.

    http://www.healthboards.com/boards/m...-phimosis.html
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    Have you seen a doctor about your phimosis?
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    My other half's foreskin doesn't retract at all, it never has done. Sex is fine though in that respect, it doesn't cause any issues, and no it doesn't put me off.
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    Re: Girls... would this put you off?
    (Original post by thelittleredfox)
    It wouldn't put me off, but a circumcised one would.

    Obviously, it is better if all the moving parts are working fully. Have you tried stretching or getting cream from the doctor to help you stretch? Unless you also have a short frenulum, it is usually possible to stretch the foreskin over time.

    http://www.healthboards.com/boards/m...-phimosis.html
    What's wrong with a circumcised penis :confused:
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    (Original post by Rarrgh)
    What's wrong with a circumcised penis :confused:
    I was wondering that too.
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    My ex was like this, and it wasn't a problem for me. I just had to be careful with it, because it could hurt him if I pulled on his foreskin.
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    What's wrong with a circumcised penis :confused:
    Sorry, just a personal preference. I know lots of girls like circumcised ones. I just have a bit of a foreskin fetish, such fun playing with them
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    Re: Girls... would this put you off?
    (Original post by thelittleredfox)
    Sorry, just a personal preference. I know lots of girls like circumcised ones. I just have a bit of a foreskin fetish, such fun playing with them
    Foreskin fetish, that's an unusual one well have fun with your foreskins
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    Re: Girls... would this put you off?
    (Original post by thelittleredfox)
    Sorry, just a personal preference. I know lots of girls like circumcised ones. I just have a bit of a foreskin fetish, such fun playing with them
    I HAVE to have a circumcision due to phimosis, it only retracts when flaccid and not erect. That would still put you off?
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    I HAVE to have a circumcision due to phimosis, it only retracts when flaccid and not erect. That would still put you off?
    I've had a couple of boyfriends who were circumcised. I'm attracted to the person more than anything. But I do prefer a penis with foreskin, in the same way some men have preferences about labia and hair down there. It isn't absolute, because in reality you are attracted to the whole package. I fancy the pants off my boyfriend. Would I fancy him less if he had to be circumcised tomorrow? No. Would I still love playing with his penis? Yes. But do I like his penis with foreskin more than I would like it without? Yes. I'd rather he wasn't uncomfortable or in pain, though - circumcision is obviously better than that, and a sex life with a circumcised guy will obviously be better - both for you and the guy - than if he was finding sex painful because his foreskin didn't retract properly.

    It's only like I prefer guys not to be skinny, to have a bit of meat on them. That doesn't mean I'd never be sexually attracted to someone quite thin. Ultimately, I am most attracted to someone because I love them, and that makes every part of them attractive.

    Hope that helps
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    Re: Girls... would this put you off?
    (Original post by thelittleredfox)
    I've had a couple of boyfriends who were circumcised.
    (Original post by thelittleredfox)
    I've had a couple of boyfriends
    (Original post by thelittleredfox)
    ...couple of boyfriends...
    I suggest you read the Bible. "Boyfriends" are a forbidden vice. May your soul be cast asunder for this perilous sin.
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    Re: Girls... would this put you off?
    (Original post by thelittleredfox)
    I've had a couple of boyfriends who were circumcised. I'm attracted to the person more than anything. But I do prefer a penis with foreskin, in the same way some men have preferences about labia and hair down there. It isn't absolute, because in reality you are attracted to the whole package. I fancy the pants off my boyfriend. Would I fancy him less if he had to be circumcised tomorrow? No. Would I still love playing with his penis? Yes. But do I like his penis with foreskin more than I would like it without? Yes. I'd rather he wasn't uncomfortable or in pain, though - circumcision is obviously better than that, and a sex life with a circumcised guy will obviously be better - both for you and the guy - than if he was finding sex painful because his foreskin didn't retract properly.

    It's only like I prefer guys not to be skinny, to have a bit of meat on them. That doesn't mean I'd never be sexually attracted to someone quite thin. Ultimately, I am most attracted to someone because I love them, and that makes every part of them attractive.

    Hope that helps
    Well sure I would like to keep my foreskin obviously, altho I can't bottle my sexual frustration up anymore, Im 25 y/l male for christ sake
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    Re: Girls... would this put you off?
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    Well sure I would like to keep my foreskin obviously, altho I can't bottle my sexual frustration up anymore, Im 25 y/l male for christ sake
    I don't blame you. My ex avoided intercourse for YEARS - into his 20s - because he had a short frenulum so his foreskin wouldn't retract. He wouldn't go to a doctor and ended up ripping it. Fortunately it turned out ok, but honestly, all those years of no sex/pain just to avoid going to the doctor and getting something done about it?

    Good luck with it, anyway.
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