[krussel]

(Original post by hollyhollywood92)
Some people on here seem to think drinking alcohol is synonymous with going out to clubs and partying. I don't drink but I go out at least twice a week, and this week for example I went to a club Wednesday Thursday and Friday and then went to a house party on Saturday.

Cool, we established you can have fun without drinking a long time ago, I wasn't debating that. Simply was interested in the preference not to.

[krussel]

(Original post by DeathByBSOD)
I like ordinary days...

I enjoy them too...only for so long.

[krussel]

(Original post by mel_1991)
Drinking does not make things more fun, that's an opinion not a fact.

You say you've asked teetotal people why they don't drink, why should they be obligated to answer you? Would you like it if they had a little mini rant about sobriety then asked why you were drinking? Or if a smoker asked you why you didn't smoke? Some people have different preferences to you. Doesn't give you the right to assume they're boring/from a troubled background/sick

I'm twenty, at Uni, and I go out regularly of various different places. I have as much fun as anyone else, my judgement isn't impaired, I can see my friends are okay, I spend maybe £7-£10 where they spend £30-£40 and I remember it the next day

Read my other posts before you ask me that question. They should not be obligated to answer me. I would not like a mini rant, no. However I do not give a rant, the thread was a question for those who would like to answer it. No, I clearly do not have that right, I didn't once think I did. Ok, I am glad that you enjoy spending less and remembering the night. However, it doesn't bother me if people don't drink, I was just interested in the reason because us humas are inquisitive. If someone doesn't want to answer, then fine I respect that. If they do, go ahead.

[Foo.mp3]

Health reasons.. the times I've relapsed it's tended to be linked to having had a bit to drink, also alcohol rarely makes me feel all that great - alcohol causes dehydration and the blood vessels to dilate, which is bad news if you have M.E./orthostatic intolerance

[tweeto]

(Original post by MrHappy_J)
"Do you smoke?"

"No"

Why should they have to give a reason?

I think you need to change your name!! You don't seem happy at all.....maybe you need a drink?

[Dark Horse]

(Original post by krussel)
Now, a lot of you will see this thread and be like ' You don't need to drink to have fun ', ' Do I need to make an idiot out of myself to be liked?. ' The answer to both of those questions is no. But most of us know, drinking sure as hell adds a lot more fun to the game. I know a fair few people who don't drink, and fail to give a reason for it - if it was for religion or health problems I'd understand. Otherwise I don't understand it!

Ok fine, don't drink excessively because that can cause health problems. However, a messy night once a week or once every few weeks and a nice drink here and there is fine! I'm genuinely interested why people do hesitate to drink or don't at all, even at the age of 19 whilst at university! Drinking is a part of your teenage years and beyond whether you like it or not, it's fun! Personally I love drinking, its nice to relax and forget about your troubles for a night an just have a good time. Who doesn't want that? It's also an amazing way to socialise an develop friendships, relationships and what not.

This thread will annoy so many of you haha, but its the risk I'm willing to take to understand the answer to my question!

The main reason is I cannot seem to handle the hangover. Other people seem to be over a hangover in a couple of hours, but I personally lose the whole day. It's enough to stop me drinking.

I hate all the crap that goes with drinking as well to be honest. Like how you're not part of the "group" if you don't drink. How if the "group" wants to do something social it inevitably involves drinking at some point.

[ChapelTom]

(Original post by krussel)
Now, a lot of you will see this thread and be like ' You don't need to drink to have fun ', ' Do I need to make an idiot out of myself to be liked?. ' The answer to both of those questions is no. But most of us know, drinking sure as hell adds a lot more fun to the game. I know a fair few people who don't drink, and fail to give a reason for it - if it was for religion or health problems I'd understand. Otherwise I don't understand it!

Ok fine, don't drink excessively because that can cause health problems. However, a messy night once a week or once every few weeks and a nice drink here and there is fine! I'm genuinely interested why people do hesitate to drink or don't at all, even at the age of 19 whilst at university! Drinking is a part of your teenage years and beyond whether you like it or not, it's fun! Personally I love drinking, its nice to relax and forget about your troubles for a night an just have a good time. Who doesn't want that? It's also an amazing way to socialise an develop friendships, relationships and what not.

This thread will annoy so many of you haha, but its the risk I'm willing to take to understand the answer to my question!

I agree with your post. Drink makes things a bit more interesting, a lot of people who don't drink have never tried drink and are afraid of it. There is nothing to be scared of with drink and the feeling of losing control is nothing to worry about if your sensible enough. And if you've never tried alcohol before, less will get your more drunk, the more regularly you drink, the more you get used to it.

I had a nasty situation when I was 14, I managed to drink a bottle of vodka after 2 pints of beer, it almost killed me, but taught me a lesson. I don't tend to touch vodka now and actually stayed off drink for 18 months after. Its always in the back of my mind when I go for a session with my mates.

I admit that on 50% of the sessions I do, I will come back being barely able to walk but have enough self control to get myself, my possessions 90% of the time (and well most of them!) and a mate or two home. I commute to Uni and often gone into Manchester with my laptop, had 10-12 pints and got it, myself, often a pisshead mate, my phone, everything back safely. No regrets, many laughs and a lot to look back on.

I have some right stories to tell from nights out involving loads of alcohol, waking up in a muddy field, having to stop on Manchester Piccadilly overnight TWICE for first time 3 hours, second time 8 hours, going into Liverpool on a pub crawl with a mate and then waking up in my hotel room with not much idea of what happened the night before.

As for hangovers. Sometimes I get them, sometimes I don't. If I do, take 2 Ibuprofen's in the morning and 2 pints of water, usually fine within 3 hours.

[MrHappy_J]

(Original post by tweeto)
I think you need to change your name!! You don't seem happy at all.....maybe you need a drink?

What on earth is the point of this post?

[tweeto]

(Original post by MrHappy_J)
What on earth is the point of this post?

Same as your views....pointless!

[MrHappy_J]

(Original post by tweeto)
Same as your views....pointless!

Lololololol

[Rish7]

I used to drink when I first arrived at University, and yes it did help a lot with socialising and getting to know people. However I decided to give it up after that first year.

Firstly, I've recently seen first-hand the awful effects that alcohol can have upon someone's life if allowed to spiral out of control. I'd rather not put myself at risk.

Secondly, I save a lot of money. Instead of spending £30'ish a week on going out and getting hammered I've managed to save myself almost £2000 this year which has only further convinced me that I'm doing a good thing.

Thirdly, my health. I have the belief that God gave me my body to look after, and I only have one shot at life. I'd like to live a long, healthy life and as such I choose not to 'poison' my organs. Being a regular gym user, I have noticed that my gym progression has jumped leaps and bounds whilst some of my friends are still stuck with their beer belly whilst I've managed to get that six-pack I've always wanted.

Of course, I have nothing against people who drink. All of my friends except one drink, hell I used to be your average drunken student on a Tuesday night but I've since decided that the benefits of dropping the drink far outweigh the 'benefits' from drinking alcohol on a personal level.

[Serentonin]

I had a group of friends when I was 13/14 that used to go out and drink a lot, so naturally I went with them. I spent 3 years getting trashed pretty much every weekend, and clubbing underage. It wasn't exciting, it wasn't 'cool' and it wasn't particularly fun tbh. I hit 18 and stopped all of it, met different friends, grew up a bit.

I don't drink at all now. I'm really fit and compete at a high level for my sport. I don't regret that part of my life, but I don't want it to be a part of my life now I'm 21. I still go clubbing occasionally, have just as much fun as the people who are drunk, spend a lot of time at the local pub, having just as much fun as those who are having a couple pints, and don't feel I'm missing out at all.

It just wasn't for me. I'm happier without it.

[tweeto]

(Original post by MrHappy_J)
Lololololol

That's the spirit!

[forgetamine]

(Original post by krussel)
Elaborate..what drugs?

when I'm out I do MDMA/pills, when I just socialise and chill out weed, ketamine. and other drugs occasionally.

[krussel]

(Original post by Dark Horse)
The main reason is I cannot seem to handle the hangover. Other people seem to be over a hangover in a couple of hours, but I personally lose the whole day. It's enough to stop me drinking.

I hate all the crap that goes with drinking as well to be honest. Like how you're not part of the "group" if you don't drink. How if the "group" wants to do something social it inevitably involves drinking at some point.

If the group enjoys drinking..then why not? The hangover is nasty, but I always think its worth it, and plus I love an excuse to do nothing all day. I wouldn't class someone not part of the group if they don't drink, thats just harsh.

[krussel]

(Original post by tweeto)
same as your views....pointless!

yeah buddie.

[krussel]

(Original post by ChapelTom)
I agree with your post. Drink makes things a bit more interesting, a lot of people who don't drink have never tried drink and are afraid of it. There is nothing to be scared of with drink and the feeling of losing control is nothing to worry about if your sensible enough. And if you've never tried alcohol before, less will get your more drunk, the more regularly you drink, the more you get used to it.

I had a nasty situation when I was 14, I managed to drink a bottle of vodka after 2 pints of beer, it almost killed me, but taught me a lesson. I don't tend to touch vodka now and actually stayed off drink for 18 months after. Its always in the back of my mind when I go for a session with my mates.

I admit that on 50% of the sessions I do, I will come back being barely able to walk but have enough self control to get myself, my possessions 90% of the time (and well most of them!) and a mate or two home. I commute to Uni and often gone into Manchester with my laptop, had 10-12 pints and got it, myself, often a pisshead mate, my phone, everything back safely. No regrets, many laughs and a lot to look back on.

I have some right stories to tell from nights out involving loads of alcohol, waking up in a muddy field, having to stop on Manchester Piccadilly overnight TWICE for first time 3 hours, second time 8 hours, going into Liverpool on a pub crawl with a mate and then waking up in my hotel room with not much idea of what happened the night before.

As for hangovers. Sometimes I get them, sometimes I don't. If I do, take 2 Ibuprofen's in the morning and 2 pints of water, usually fine within 3 hours.

We share the same view. It's just good times to look back on, and alcohol tends to make the night more eventful..you do things you usually wouldn't which most of the time for me is funny, and again something eventful to look back on. As you say, you just need to know how to handle your drink and what your limits are - and you'll be just fine. It irritates me that someone has disliked your post, most likely someone who will not listen to any pros a drinker has to say.

[krussel]

(Original post by Rish7)
I used to drink when I first arrived at University, and yes it did help a lot with socialising and getting to know people. However I decided to give it up after that first year.

Firstly, I've recently seen first-hand the awful effects that alcohol can have upon someone's life if allowed to spiral out of control. I'd rather not put myself at risk.

Secondly, I save a lot of money. Instead of spending £30'ish a week on going out and getting hammered I've managed to save myself almost £2000 this year which has only further convinced me that I'm doing a good thing.

Thirdly, my health. I have the belief that God gave me my body to look after, and I only have one shot at life. I'd like to live a long, healthy life and as such I choose not to 'poison' my organs. Being a regular gym user, I have noticed that my gym progression has jumped leaps and bounds whilst some of my friends are still stuck with their beer belly whilst I've managed to get that six-pack I've always wanted.

Of course, I have nothing against people who drink. All of my friends except one drink, hell I used to be your average drunken student on a Tuesday night but I've since decided that the benefits of dropping the drink far outweigh the 'benefits' from drinking alcohol on a personal level.

I respect this kind of view the most, because you've been there and done that. Therefore you can weight out the pros and cons for you personally, its jut ignorance that annoys me from other posters.

[krussel]

(Original post by forgetamine)
when I'm out I do MDMA/pills, when I just socialise and chill out weed, ketamine. and other drugs occasionally.

Living it up.

[Copperknickers]

(Original post by etyson89)
7) FACT!!!! Being drunk is to the most part, psychological!!!! I have been asked countless times "Are you drunk?" from people who know I am completely tee total. well the answer is clearly no ofc. It is about the environment/atmosphere and the great friends you are with and your mood to have a good time/ let of some steam as you may say. I have seen people go from completely wasted in the club to fairly sober on the walk home/ after the early morning Asda visit/ when talking to people outside/ a situation arises like something silly as "wheres my phone", "where has so and so got to", "we need to wait for whoever".

This. I was once convinced by my friends that a peach alcopop they bought me was just normal peach juice (I never drink fruit juice of any sort so I didn't recognise the taste of alcohol). I had about 4 of them, and they were full of vodka and whiskey, easily enough to get me slurring my speech and staggering. But since I didn't think they were alcoholic, I was barely drunk at all by the end of the night. Alcohol is a placebo, an adult male can have 6 or 7 drinks without any real effects so long as he is convinced that they will not effect him, and even very drunk people can be immediately sobered up when their brain realises they are not under the influence on a physiological level, for example if they are in some sort of danger. I only drink alcohol because I enjoy the taste of it, I wouldn't just drink alcohol because I was in an alcoholic setting.