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  1. Anonymous's Avatar
    will this put a guy off sex?
    okay i'm a girl and 18 and a virgin.. i'm a bit insecure with the apperance of my labia, i know it's a werid question but i think it's longer than what you see from the porn industry as the girls you see just don't even have one? i thought i was completely normal til not so long ago when i came across tumblr.. are there any other girls like me? or if you're a guy would this put you off if your gf had a longer labia? i mean not really long just longer than images i see and stuff..
  2. Grey_Fox's Avatar
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    You're normal.

    Anyone with any sense and/or experience will know this. Anyone else won't be worth bothering with.
  3. ratherchloe's Avatar
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    Honestly don't worry about it, the girls in porn are not an accurate representation of normal girls.
  4. Anonymous's Avatar
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    I have the same kind of thing, neither of my boyfriends cared xD Anyone sensible knows that the women in porn and what they'll do aren't representative of real life at all
  5. Anonymous's Avatar
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    i'm the same. i've slept with five guys and none of them cared, or probably even noticed for that matter. porn doesn't show how our bodies should 'normally' look, don't worry about it!
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    :sexface:
  7. pixelfrag's Avatar
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    That's like saying my breasts are too small, will it put guys off because girls in the porn industry have huge breasts!

    A lot of the pornstars undergo some sort of surgery to change the appearance of some of their features so you shouldn't trust porn for a general consensus of appearance.

    You'll be fine
  8. piratefinn's Avatar
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    Porn is fake. It's about as real as The Sun is factual. Any good partner should value you for personality.
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    (Original post by piratefinn)
    Porn is fake. It's about as real as The Sun is factual. Any good partner should value you for personality.
    Some people with the brain of a gold fish would mis read this as the sun in the sky isn't real
  10. iamyourspiritfrombeyondth's Avatar
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    It'll take a lot more than that to put most guys off sex.
  11. sexygenocide's Avatar
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    It'll be fine. Any guy who is shallow enough to run away from you because of this will probably trip over your flaps on the way out. Justice will be swift.
  12. RabbitCFH's Avatar
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    Oh my God, your labia is longer than most porn stars' labias?! You will never have sex.


    Seriously though, no guy will ever care.
  13. Tedaus's Avatar
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    Hate to break it to you, but guys dicks aren't as big as they are in porn either
  14. fitou's Avatar
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    Most of those chicks have had their labia "trimmed." Think about that.
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    You'll be fine. I have never had any comments on my labia length
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    okay i'm a girl and 18 and a virgin.. i'm a bit insecure with the apperance of my labia, i know it's a werid question but i think it's longer than what you see from the porn industry as the girls you see just don't even have one? i thought i was completely normal til not so long ago when i came across tumblr.. are there any other girls like me? or if you're a guy would this put you off if your gf had a longer labia? i mean not really long just longer than images i see and stuff..
    Most (if not all) guys you sleep with will be far more concerned with the appearance/length/girth/weird bend in their penis than with your genitallia. Seriously though, everyone is different. Don't worry about it!
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    (Original post by sexygenocide)
    It'll be fine. Any guy who is shallow enough to run away from you because of this will probably trip over your flaps on the way out. Justice will be swift.
    Ha ha ha ha ha. Amazing.
  18. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    hmmmm some are contradicting but thank you for the replies, i feel much better! x
  19. Foo.mp3's Avatar
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    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    Boys may be put off, men will quite happily just **** the ass off you
  20. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: will this put a guy off sex?
    I have this too. Wouldn't undress for my boyfriend for so long, I was terrified and embarrassed by it. Finally I just caved in, and have no idea why I was even worried, he didn't care.
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