[Anonymous]

There has been a constant love interest in my life for the past 5 or so years at my school, and it has never hindered. But so many things are stopping anything from happening. At school I was always the qwerky, fat kid. I've recently hit the gym and havegone back to normal weight, and toned up. Not only this, but she's in another social level to me. Now, I wouldnt call myself an ogre, but I would say id look ok, even though I dont really have that great of a body. I can have conversations with her easily, but she doesnt go to the same places I do.

I have tried in earlier years, it just was not right and I was in the wrong mind. My heart yearns for her, but I'm afraid it would go wrong and all hope lost. Its also clear her mind is on someone else whose musical talents far surpass mine.

What do I do?

[foolscap]

Make your feelings clear, find some time where you can get her alone and she will make it clear if you have a chance, then you can move on or get together.

[brunettegirl92]

i'm a girl and i don't consider social levels - i don't even see that they exist - although i am 20, so am likely to have grown out of them anyway - i don't think girls really care about them, or like me, don't even acknowledge thier existance.
i'll be an absolute hypocrite for saying this, but, maybe you should talk to her if your confident enough.
if not you can always befriend her -or try to, to a point that you can talk to her (in my case i did the latter and it was in vain- but you may have more luck). it depends on personality, but i would want to know someone properly first.

[clarky-uk]

its not going to happen, move on, 5 years is enough time wasted as life's too short

[Nidhogg_Rider]

Don't waste your time, if anything was going to happen in them 5 years it would have happened by now. Truth hurts, but you deal with it and move on.

[mark147celts]

chance your arm.. nothing to lose lad...talk to her more etc, see what happens
never say never! lol (beliebe :P)

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