[Anonymous]

My best friend and I admitted we have feelings for each other and have kissed a few times on some nights out. He has depression and is on anti depressants, he said if it wasn't for his depression he would pursue a relationship with me and that I can do better than him. Last night he invited a girl out who he previously had a one night stand with and I caught him kissing her. I confronted him and an argument happened as our mutual friends have said to him why is he doing this to me if he cared enough not to upset me. We all got a taxi to his and he told us to leave and ran around to this girls house drunk which we think was to sleep with her. I am heartbroken and never expected him to treat me so badly. People have said he is on self destruct mode. What do I do now?

[Alpharius]

Could be the medication, but I won't make excuses for him.

He sounds like a t*at, that you really would do well forgetting about. If he want's to "self-destruct," let him do it, but make sure you are no part of it.

A real friend wouldn't treat you like that. It's disrespectful.

[pinkangelgirl]

the best way you can respond to this? by not responding at all. Dont even give him the satisfaction that you care.

He clearly didnt think how you would feel, therefore hes not worth it

[Anonymous]

He would never have behaved like this before and is cutting all of his long time friends off. People have said this could all be down to his bipolar coming back, could that be true?