If your not trolling, the here's my opinion, if it's weight issues just set yourself lots of little target and you'll be thin in no time, if it's because you don't think your good looking its probably just a confidence thing. Just ask girls/guys out, go speed dating, theres someone for everyone. Personally I am completely against "mail order brides" as I see it as highly immoral and a form of people trafficing. As I say just be confident and you'll find someone!