[Anonymous]

I think I am quite an insecure person, I'm 17 and I have only begun my first relationship so haven't had experience either.

My girlfriend on the phone a few nights ago spoke about her ex boyfriend for 15 minutes telling me how 'crazy' he was, for example that he would kill himself if they broke up at all. She also mentioned that he would always try show up places that she'd go, for example a a party.

For some reason I got jealous about her talking about her ex....is this wrong of me? And should I tell her how I feel? Or am I over reacting?

[Double Agent]

He is an ex for a reason, plus he sounds a little unhinged, I dont think you have anything to worry about.

[amyshamblesxx]

I don't think you have anything to worry about, but it probably wouldn't hurt to try and change the subject if she brings up her ex again.

[MizzlaMiz]

She trusts you enough to talk about him with you. I think that's a good sign. I know that I talked about my ex a lot with my boyfriend as a way of getting him out of my system. If you feel uncomfortable about it,t alk to her and tell her how it made you feel. Relationships are all about communication.