[Pin]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Yhh they do i mean these girls were calling me a slag cause there's some pic's of me on fb wearing a crop top which also my parents are angry about and replied to them as me being a slag. So idk if showing them these tweets will make them angry or just put it back in my face saying i told you so

Show the teacher the rude tweets.

Your fb photos are you're decision. Do you think the pictures reflect badly on you. You should delete the rude comments and delete any future ones, don't even bother responding. If it's a big problem you should block the girl so she can't view/comment your photos. You may decide to take the photos down, you may want to keep them up there, but you shouldn't let idiots dictate your life.

[warfarin]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I dont have a boyfriend thoooo!!!

This was meant to be general advice, I did read your post

(Original post by Anonymous)
Although i'm a girl i agree with you honestly all i want to do is to finish this year asap finish yr 11 get my good grades go 6th form then uni. I can't do this with bull**** flying in the air. I have no-one to tlk to at home that understands me.

It's ridiculous that your parents don't trust you. Many parents would kill for such a daughter like you.

[ArcaneAnna]

Sheesh.

If your parents believe your friends over you, great family life.

My mum would believe me over anyone or antyhing! Even if I'd have done something wrong int he past.

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Oopps sorry , okay last year i had a boyfriend and i'm indian so that's like completely against their expectations, they caught me and i got punished , i learnt not to make that mistake again, now this girl has told my dad that i'm dating a black boy and the reason they are believing this is that i could be capable of it and about a month ago i had him on my phone but named him his sisters name and was tlking to his sister as well as him. I understand why the can't believe me but i really am not dating him he's just a friend but rumours were flying around that we took no notice of :/
and i've told my dad why this girl group want me to fail and he is slightly understanding me but he wants me to move school and doesn't believee me yet :/

Are you're parent's racist?

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Are you're parent's racist?

Nope their not racist at all , they accept all races , he has many black friends and workers, it's just the rep it would hold as an indian girl going out with a black boy

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Pin)
Show the teacher the rude tweets.

Your fb photos are you're decision. Do you think the pictures reflect badly on you. You should delete the rude comments and delete any future ones, don't even bother responding. If it's a big problem you should block the girl so she can't view/comment your photos. You may decide to take the photos down, you may want to keep them up there, but you shouldn't let idiots dictate your life.

I dont have fb these pics were posted by my friend as it was her birthday party and someone emailed them to my dad

[blacklistmember]

why are your parents not allowing you to date someone?

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Nope their not racist at all , they accept all races , he has many black friends and workers, it's just the rep it would hold as an indian girl going out with a black boy

Sorry but I don't know what that means?

[Anonymous]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Sorry but I don't know what that means?

LOL they're reallly traditional family , so basically only date someone within race ,religion and culture that's it , i believe it;s an asian thing and happens with most indian/punjabi kids

[Pin]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I dont have fb these pics were posted by my friend as it was her birthday party and someone emailed them to my dad

oh. If you are unhappy with them, how about asking your friend to remove them if that's possible.

[.Missy]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Sorry but I don't know what that means?

I think what the OP is trying to say is that some indian cultures, typically the older generation want there children to marry an indian as well. Not cause there racist, mainly because to keep their reputation good. Other members in the family my consider it 'bad' if they dont

Correct me if I'm wrong OP


OP, I think you should gain your parents trust. Do they still not believe you?

[wenger16]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Sorry but I don't know what that means?

Its a cultural thing; indian/pakistani parents only allow their kids to go out with the respective nationalities. So indians can only go out with indians. They like to keep their culture intact and therefore only want their kids to integrate with same nationalities, its not racist.
Going out with white people or Black people is definitely looked down upon by the whole community so by all indian not just her family as it would give them bad reputation.
Its just how it is.

[.Missy]

(Original post by wenger16)
Its a cultural thing; indian/pakistani parents only allow their kids to go out with the respective nationalities. So indians can only go out with indians. They like to keep their culture intact and therefore only want their kids to integrate with same nationalities, its not racist.
Going out with white people or Black people is definitely looked down upon by the whole community so by all indian not just her family as it would give them bad reputation.
Its just how it is.

Explained it better then me

[AishaTara]

(Original post by Anonymous)
No waaaaayyyyy! im clean. last year i had a muslim boyfriend and im indian so i was dead meat but luckily they gave me a second chance to redeem myself. they are against me talking to guys even as friends which is fine cause my life dnt revolve around guys yh i tlk to them but im not that bothered. anyway this year i was tlkin to this guy frequently. rumours flew by that we were dating when we aren't and the girl told my parents that we are cause of these rumours. my parents dnt trust me cause they think cuz of last year i am capable of it. Plus last year i got the socials involved :/ last year was just a weak point of my life. Anyway it's just an issue regarding boys.

why did you get the socials involved?
secondly, shes sounds horrid! If anyone is jeering her on, they are just as bad. What you do has got nothing to do with her, and especially she has no right to go to your parents either. I know a girl who did the same, and 2 years let, shes suffering herself. So Don't do anything nasty back, as you'll be in the wrong. I'd defo print some of the stuff and show a teacher, as this is cyber bullying. Or confront her (it'll take alot of courage), but ask her firmly, why she did it and what it has got to do with her. Her life must be boring if shes trying to mess with yours

[AishaTara]

(Original post by blacklistmember)
why are your parents not allowing you to date someone?

asian culture

[blacklistmember]

(Original post by AishaTara)
asian culture

lol

[RubyShoes]

(Original post by wenger16)
They like to keep their culture intact and therefore only want their kids to integrate with same nationalities, its not racist.

Seems like they've stolen a slogan from the BNP there.

Anyone who thinks that isnt racist is stupid.

[cgraham15]

You can do what you want, although its probably best to keep your independence until you leve home if you know what I mean and it's causing a lot of problems. If your parents knew you then they would trust you. Although to be mad at you for having a boyfriend is quite pathetic and you shouldn't beat yourself up about it, it's your parents' fault.
However, the girl that you know sounds like an ass. Two wrongs don't make a right, though, so just ignore her or you could even make friends with her (just pretend to like her so she gets off your back)?

[wenger16]

(Original post by RubyShoes)
Seems like they've stolen a slogan from the BNP there.

Anyone who thinks that isnt racist is stupid.

Indian and Pakistani parents don't mind their kids making friends and hanging out with other races. They will hold nothing against other races.

But when it comes to the marriage and relationship Indians want their children to marry indians and pakistani want their children to marry pakistanis. Its to do with the reputation of family which means a lot in those cultures. It can also be related to religion eg muslim with muslims.

Are you really going to tell me that a whole culture can be racist?

[RubyShoes]

(Original post by wenger16)
Indian and Pakistani parents don't mind their kids making friends and hanging out with other races. They will hold nothing against other races.

But when it comes to the marriage and relationship Indians want their children to marry indians and pakistani want their children to marry pakistanis. Its to do with the reputation of family which means a lot in those cultures. It can also be related to religion eg muslim with muslims.

Are you really going to tell me that a whole culture can be racist?

If they discriminate who they can or cant marry based on race alone, then they are being racist. dressing it up as preserving 'culture' doesn't make it any less discriminatory. the bottom line is they feel Indian culture and race is superior to others and they don't want it 'diluted'.

I'm not saying the whole culture is racist, i'm saying the idiots who have nothing better to think about, other than their reputation at the expense of their children's happiness and call it 'culture', are racist.