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    feeling really down:(
    Im really overweight and been going to the gym quite often recently and changed by eating habits by eating salads etc.
    i feel like i'm just getting no where and i am just feel so fat and disgusting especially after i've just been tagged in photos from a night out
    i could just do with some cheering up tbh after a pretty ****ty week!
  2. Sabertooth's Avatar
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    Re: feeling really down:(
    Keep at it, if you're exercising enough and eating the right food eventually the weight will start to come off. It takes a fair amount of dedication and time to lose weight but keep at it and you'll be rewarded. It gets easier to keep going once you notice the first few pounds come off.
  3. Livvy99's Avatar
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    Try swimming, thats supposed to be really good for you
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    Re: feeling really down:(
    i know what you mean OP.

    Ive been working out, swimming etc but im fatter than ever pics from my night out made me look disgusting!!

    just keep at it i guess, and use your pics to try and motivate you?

    i bet your probably seeing yourself worse than you actually are though!
  5. sii217's Avatar
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    (Original post by Livvy99)
    Try swimming, thats supposed to be really good for you
    Is that a sly insult?
  6. subjectman10's Avatar
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    (Original post by sii217)
    Is that a sly insult?
    Are you making notions?:unimpressed:
  7. Livvy99's Avatar
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    (Original post by sii217)
    Is that a sly insult?
    No! I was just trying to be helpful :O
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    Re: feeling really down:(
    Lose weight by walking everyday. I need I lose weight and walk to wear end a few times a week to improve my overall health.
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    Come and join us on our "get healthy" thread! Link on my sig. No judgement in there, just a lot of support and lovely people x
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    Re: feeling really down:(
    Find excuses to go walking and exercising. If you have a job/go to school walk there (unless it's like, 5 miles away). My school is about 3miles away and I still walk there, takes me 50 mins and leaves me tired afterwards but is also really good exercise. I see you're going to the gym so that's good

    Above all, try not to care so much! Be happy with who you are. If you seem comfortable in your own skin then people will be comfortable in your presence. Trust me.
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    It's wrong of me to assume, but cutting out alcohol could be something to consider? I just guessed since you said 'night-out' it meant a night on the happy-sauce. I could be wrong.

    When I want to drop weight I just jog a lot, alternating lengths so I don't tire myself out but enough so I can run around 5 times a week. I'd suggest running to everyone, it really makes you feel good when you finish a particularly tiring run because you get a big rush of good feelings. When I first started I was a really big guy (99% blubber) and I just went for long walks and jogged every 5 minutes or so. It's a swift learning curve, so you get better at it quite quickly.
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    You're going to think that, trust me because you are not visually seeing results, but that is no reason to feel down. You shouldnt give up because psychologically being affected will cause weight loss to occur slower as you as a person become more dull

    I have a personal trainer, and he helped me tonnes. I used to be size 18, and now im a size 10.

    Learn to love yourself, and dont hate it. You should always try to better yourself, instead of wallowing in self pity. It wont help you at all. Im not being mean, Im being helpful.

    Just carry on with your exercise/diet lifestyle and you'll see the difference. But if your not happy see your local GP, or like me get a trainer.

    My mum couldnt lose weight, and was on the brink of depression. She went to the GP who told her she had a fibroid which caused her heaviness. She had the operation for it 8weeks ago and no joke she's shedding the pounds now. If ever in doubt about anything to do with the body, seek medical help.
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    Re: feeling really down:(
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im really overweight and been going to the gym quite often recently and changed by eating habits by eating salads etc.
    i feel like i'm just getting no where and i am just feel so fat and disgusting especially after i've just been tagged in photos from a night out
    i could just do with some cheering up tbh after a pretty ****ty week!
    Take pleasure in small things - enjoy exercising and laugh and smile a lot (even if you're faking it will become genuine and it makes you feel better) and SLEEP sleeping properly makes EVERYTHING better.

    some easy things that work for me to shed unwanted poundage are, making your portions smaller, cooking with cayane pepper (it speeds up your metabolism)and having an espresso at lunch

    most of all accept that loosing weight in a way that will keep weight off will take time- In the mean ime try to learn to love you body a bit more. maybe try vintage styles that flatter fuller figures when you go out, let out your inner bodacious babe
  14. SneakyDoug's Avatar
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    Re: feeling really down:(
    You just need to turn your frown upside down!
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