(Original post by Anonymous)
Ok. Here goes my epicly long reply...but hey, you asked for it
I joined a dating site called freedating in Novemeber (i currently had a boyfriend but id found him on a dating site so i only joined because he had). I got chatting to this guy and we clicked really well. I told him i had a boyfriend and i also told my boyfriend about him. I met this guy (with permission off my boyfriend on the basis it was just friends). And the initial meet wasnt successful but we stayed in touch. (my boyfriend broke up with me after finding another girl) so then me and this guy got closer, ended up in a relationship for about a week, and then just friends- and we're still really good friends now
Then when my boyfriend broke up with me i joined PoF. Met a guy off there, things were going ok, we shared a kiss outside my house. Never met up again, but spoke loads on facebook. Think he thought i was a weirdo
he'd ask me why i wasnt talking to him etc and then id suggest meeting up again and hed make an excuse, so i just gave up on the mixed signals (i.e. inititating talking etc and then not wanting to meet). Im not looking for 'chat buddies'.
2nd guy- we met up and he was really shy. Asked me what id done today and 2 mins later asked me what id done today, bless him
he was nice enough, we went for a drink then he suggested we went for a walk, then text me saying ''nice meeting you, you were lovely'' then i text a few days later, got no response, never heard off him since. He was a lot better looking in real life than his photos though!!
then i quit PoF because i just couldnt be bothered.
Then i rejoined around easter because all my friends were going home from Uni and i wanted to meet more people.
1st guy- we met up 3 times, kissed, but tbh i was in a weird place, thought i liked him, then just realised i was desperate
told him i was sorry etc but didnt like him in that way- apologised for giving him mixed signals.
2nd guy- we just went out as friends had a good day, still talk, but not entirely sure what he wants. I dont want anything with him anyway.
3rd guy- went on 2 dates, actually really liked him and fancied him and vice versa. The only problem was after the first date he got really clingy- told me who i could and couldnt be friends with, jealous when i said i fancied a celeb, even though all day he'd done the same thing and i didnt care lol. Then just got really manipulative, twisted everything i said. kept pushing for a relationship, told me off for not wanting to kiss on the 1st date etc. so i just told him i didnt like his games.
4th guy- i was stupid, we met up at like 11pm....and being the naiive idiot i am i genuinely thought he didnt just want sex. Ended up at his flat, he was just disgusting. He kept trying to push for stuff. I was really lucky that i got out his flat ok, because it was so stupid going there!!
Then i quit PoF about 2 weeks after joining, and now i dont want to date or relationships at all!!!