Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???

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  1. gintoki's Avatar
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by brunettegirl92)
    you say that women ignore the more important double standards, but this is another generalisation.
    The other points you made were fair.

    To answer the quote, you see threads with this title or similar all over TSR and internet, but you hardly see threads with the points that I made. That shows ignorance or that the majority of women want to have more power than men over equality.
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by gintoki)
    The other points you made were fair.

    To answer the quote, you see threads with this title or similar all over TSR and internet, but you hardly see threads with the points that I made. That shows ignorance or that the majority of women want to have more power than men over equality.
    hmm -i can see your point, but i don't know if that is an accurate method of measuring it. I mean people write about what gets their backs up, such as how they see one group being discriminated against, than they think everyone is discriminated against and everyone should be equal.
    it could be that the former group of people could be more vocal than the latter group, which could explain this. The only way to check this is to research it extensively, by asking people who are more vocal about their opinions, less vocal about their opinions, and people who don't usually answer such questions. This however is virtually impossible.

    This could be a symptom of an inherently sexist society, that many women still believe themselves to be the weaker gender, and child care is 'their' job, not a man and woman's job. Therefore they believe they should have more rights in these areas.
    based on the second possible reason for this, i would have to go for ignorance.

    it is a tricky subject with loads of possible arguements and debates, as although your point that there are more such threads is definitely something i agree with, it would be interesting to discuss why this is
  3. indianaussie's Avatar
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by SquaredCircle)
    And that's a ****ing stupid saying. Women are not metallic padlocks made to protect a room or garage and men are not keys. So as I have expertly illustrated. Your logic falls down
    Are you real? I had to pinch myself because guys like you only seem to exist in fairy tales and romantic movies.

    I pos repped you mate. Lol at the anti-feminist guys (or girls) neg repping you. They just haven't evolved into modern times.
    There haven't been many girls posting on this thread and none that have replied to you but i want to say I really appreciate your comments especially knowing the flak you would have received.

    I think not only are you a really amazing guy but you are way more articulate, rational and logical then most here. yOu should write a blog.

    After reading so many threads on tsr generalising about women i had given up on british guys but you've restored my faith.

    More girls should <3 and appreciate white knights in shining armour
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by don_lad_)
    if a girl sleeps around she gets pregnant or gets chlamydia and becomes infertile whereas neither of these are an issue for guys
    Actually...

    If a guy sleeps around he can get STDs like chlamydia, gonorrhoea, Hep B and HIV. Male infertility can be caused by chlamydia as well and 50% of failed pregnancies is due to males.

    So you should really be informed on this so you can

    Just because guys don't carry a child doesn't mean their fertility and quality of sperm is not important. Personally, i prefer a guy who is not promiscuous as i am not myself.


    http://www.thirdage.com/hc/c/male-in...ity-prevention

    Protect Yourself From Sexually Transmitted Diseases
    Unprotected sexual intercourse (intercourse without a condom) increases your risk of developing a sexually transmitted disease (STD). Several STDs, including Gonorrhea and Chlamydia , often produce no symptoms, especially in men, so you may not know you are infected. Untreated STDs can cause scarring in the sperm-carrying tubes, which reduces the number of sperm in semen and increases the risk of fertility problems. The more sexual partners you have, the greater your chance of contracting an STD. Using condoms and minimizing the number of sexual partners will reduce your risk of getting an STD.
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by SquaredCircle)
    The only thing that bothers me about this is you think I'm a troll. I pity you.
    Don't worry about that guy's coments. I've noticed he is quite disrespectful on many threads and he does not really display any intelligent arguments. He only knows how to name call.
    The fact that he is from my racial background is an embarrassment but it just makes you realise how antiquated views are in people of particular mind-sets.
    Last edited by indianaussie; 08-06-2012 at 21:41.
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by HARRY PUTAH)
    STRONG SENSE OF "always a hugger, never a ****er"

    :lol:


    Virgin
    Why are all your comments so infantile, unintelligent and inarticulate? I know your username is named after a children's movie, most likely plagiarised from the british version, but do you have to live up to the childishness of the name?
    You make me ashamed to know that I am of the same racial background as you. Luckily, your words do not represent the vast majority of Indian guys who are decent people. Why feed into the stereotype people have of Indian guys being sleazy and sex obsessed?
    I hope you display such attitude and express such disgusting comments when talking to your female friends and relatives as well.
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by indianaussie)
    Why are all your comments so infantile, unintelligent and inarticulate? I know your username is named after a children's movie, most likely plagiarised from the british version, but do you have to live up to the childishness of the name?
    You make me ashamed to know that I am of the same racial background as you. Luckily, your words do not represent the vast majority of Indian guys who are decent people. Why feed into the stereotype people have of Indian guys being sleazy and sex obsessed?
    I hope you display such attitude and express such disgusting comments when talking to your female friends and relatives as well.
    Im not indian you ****ing halfwit.

    I also do not give a flying toss about TSR and the majroty of its idiotic user base. Children on here claim they're smart but even simple matters in the real world are beyond them.

    I aint got a clue where you got me being an indian from :lol: Maybe the Native American one as I have a hyuuuge cawk.
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by HARRY PUTAH)
    I have a hyuuuge cawk.
    *yummy*

    /sarcasm.
  9. indianaussie's Avatar
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by HARRY PUTAH)
    Im not indian you ****ing halfwit.

    I also do not give a flying toss about TSR and the majroty of its idiotic user base. Children on here claim they're smart but even simple matters in the real world are beyond them.

    I aint got a clue where you got me being an indian from :lol: Maybe the Native American one as I have a hyuuuge cawk.
    Apologies for assuming you were part of one of the most successful ethnic minorities in the UK. I recalled reading your comment on some asian based thread and your username resembles an indian movie. Anyway, glad to have that clarified. Such a relief you're not Indian as most Indian guys i know are intelligent, decent and caring guys with good family values. So it was unusual that you'd be in that same group. *Phew* what a relief. So you've been checking out Indian guys. It's good to embrace who you are. Keep that up. Indian guys are quite handsome and dashing aren't they?

    Yeh one BBC article based on a sample size of a couple of thousand guys does not represent a population of a couple of billion. I know plenty of unflattering stereotypes about British guys but i can differentiate between a stereotype and reality.

    squaredcircle and ct2k7 have more class in their pinky then you have in your entirety. You berating squaredcircle about his success with women was pathetic. If you have so many sexual exploits/conquests then you'd be doing that instead of bragging about it here.

    Yes you are a huge arrogant cock. I doubt british women would be attracted to that. I would hope they have more intelligence then that.
  10. indianaussie's Avatar
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by ct2k7)
    *yummy*

    /sarcasm.
    I've read some of your comments on other threads and find your views very refreshing and intelligent. I wish more guys were like you and squaredcircle.
    There's too many General Isations on tsr. :P Both of you inspired me to open a thread on appreciating tsr Gentlemen because they are rare and both of you are the dictionary definition of the word.
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by Roaroaroar)
    How do you know this? Are you a good looking guy? Probably not. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/14524006 As that study shows, physical attractiveness is the main component in getting laid. In a club/bar environment, good looking guys will find it just as easy to get laid as good looking girls. On the street/public, the women will find it more easier as shown by previous studies but this is because of the difference in environment and the fact that women are weaker than men generally hence will be more cautious at accepting advances from creepy men (which is what you are if you try to approach someone for sex on the street) despite being good-looking.
    Don't understand what this stupid study comes in the argument about guys=players/girls=sluts?? And I am good looking, as evidence I am from Indian origin!
  12. ct2k7's Avatar
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by indianaussie)
    I've read some of your comments on other threads and find your views very refreshing and intelligent. I wish more guys were like you and squaredcircle.
    There's too many General Isations on tsr. :P Both of you inspired me to open a thread on appreciating tsr Gentlemen because they are rare and both of you are the dictionary definition of the word.

    Thanks
  13. HayleyQuinn's Avatar
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by Torrresss)
    I care, I could have been doing so many things that were more fun than reading that drivel.

    Stop sucking up to her aswell, no one likes a suck up, she isn't going to shag you because you stuck up for her on an internet forum.
    Yes, because his intentions here clearly were for sex.

    You really are some kind of special idiot.
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by gintoki)
    You got bored. So what? No one cares.

    I actually found the post interesting and does reveal her intelligence. God I'm a sucker for intelligent women :blush:
    Cheers! Glad to know my psychology revision was not in vain, even if i completely balls up the exam, at least i taught someone something when i could still remember the information! xD
  15. HayleyQuinn's Avatar
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by Torrresss)
    I potentially saved 10 children from being bored listening to 'HayleyQuinn' drivel on about something or nothing, I win.
    *Yawn* Oh you do talk some tosh.
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by laurenbowes)
    No one said there aren't double standards, and as a woman and a PROUD feminist (who believes in EQUALITY i.e. the actual meaning of feminism) I don't ignore this.

    All of the problems that are caused, however, are because women are expected to be weaker, less sexual and the maternal figure. This is why there is discrimination against both sexes, that's why men can't hit women, even though there are women out there who are stronger than men, women with higher sex drives and women who would never want a child and men who would.



    Darling if you'd actually read it you'd realise that it was all relevant and there was not really any parts that could have been cut out to make it easier for you. Here's a tip, dictionary.com is GREAT for those big words :rolleyes:
    You are my hero. Ahaha thanks, at first i was a bit concerned but then i've realised he just fights like this with everyone! Must be a weird attention thing from childhood :confused:
  17. HayleyQuinn's Avatar
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by mau5)
    Having the mindset that all girls are sluts and treating them like that is probably the easiest way to be successful with them. I've yet to come across a girl who wasn't 'easy'.
    how charming... i'm guessing you aren't digging long term relationships then?
  18. Barden's Avatar
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    It may be illogical, and 'wrong'... but it's just how it is in today's society... just gotta deal with it...
  19. mau5's Avatar
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by HayleyQuinn)
    how charming... i'm guessing you aren't digging long term relationships then?
    Been pretty much hung up on one girl for nearly 2 years, it would be unfair on a girl to get into a relationship with her where she'd effectively be 2nd best.
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    Re: Girls = sluts | Guys = players ???
    (Original post by HayleyQuinn)
    how charming... i'm guessing you aren't digging long term relationships then?
    He is right though unfortunately, most blokes you meet who've banged a high number of girls have that mindset. Letting on that you actually like a girl is a sure fire way to get friend zoned.
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