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Re: family problemsHi!
Sounds really bad. I would recommend seeing a psychologist and trying to get your parents to see the psychologist (maybe after you get to know the psychologist get him/her to pretend to be a friend in order to introduce him to your parents, as they may object to seeing a psychologist themselves). Hope things get better with your family!
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Re: family problemsThis. But why did they do that? How old are you?(Original post by QwertyG)
Heat up the kettle and pour water over him if he poured ice cold water over you -
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Re: family problemsI suspect troll going with the name however I'm sorry if I'm wrong.(Original post by dgdlalo16)
hey guys
i have always felt like a black sheep of the family
i find everyone hates me in my family
my dad poured ice cold water over my head today and my mum hurt my hand
i am in alot of pain right now
have any advice what to do?
How old are you? You should move out if you are old enough.
edit: I see your 15 by your profile.
She is 15(Original post by Plums&Peaches)
This. But why did they do that? How old are you?Last edited by murpo; 08-06-2012 at 20:57. -
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Re: family problems16 is my favourite number so i put that down and my dog's name is lalo my initals are dgd!!(Original post by murpo)
I suspect troll going with the name however I'm sorry if I'm wrong.
How old are you? You should move out if you are old enough.
edit: I see your 15 by your profile.
She is 15
anyway i tld my parents i dont want to live with them anymore
i have study leave and i am allowed to stay at home and revise but my mum is here and i dont want to be near her
she told me she doesnt want anything to do with me and for me to get out of her sight
i always think how lucky my friends are to have such nice parents but then i come back to reality and have to face such horrible parents everyday -
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Re: family problemsCould you stop at a friends house or would that be impossible(Original post by dgdlalo16)
16 is my favourite number so i put that down and my dog's name is lalo my initals are dgd!!
anyway i tld my parents i dont want to live with them anymore
i have study leave and i am allowed to stay at home and revise but my mum is here and i dont want to be near her
she told me she doesnt want anything to do with me and for me to get out of her sight
i always think how lucky my friends are to have such nice parents but then i come back to reality and have to face such horrible parents everyday -
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Re: family problemshello(Original post by king0vdarkness)
Hi!
Sounds really bad. I would recommend seeing a psychologist and trying to get your parents to see the psychologist (maybe after you get to know the psychologist get him/her to pretend to be a friend in order to introduce him to your parents, as they may object to seeing a psychologist themselves). Hope things get better with your family!
Hope this helps!
yh i thinking of going to school and telling teachers
i have quite literally bruises on my left hand and my arm where i was hit
i really hate my mum and would do anything to get away from her
i feel like dirt or the lowest thing ever and this is how my mum makes me feel
i know i sound like a poor depressed person but this is my reality
i hate my life and with gcse exams being 3 days away i am not sure how i am going to get through it -
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Re: family problemsmy parents said my friends dont really like me and it would be another mouth to feed
they make me feel so low to the ground that i told them i wanted to kill myself
my mum told me to do that and it would make her feel better
i know normally people wouldnt say anything online but i have no one else to talk to -
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Re: family problemsi think that would be impossible(Original post by murpo)
Could you stop at a friends house or would that be impossible
my mum tells me i will be the slave around the house when i get bad gcse grades
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Re: family problemsi dont know why they do that to me(Original post by Plums&Peaches)
This. But why did they do that? How old are you?
i am 15 years old
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Re: family problemsyh i should try that one ahha(Original post by QwertyG)
Heat up the kettle and pour water over him if he poured ice cold water over you
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Re: family problemsok thanks i appreciate your help(Original post by murpo)
Talk to your teacher tell them what is happening. If you need someone to talk to then you can pm me here, add me on skype/msn or message through twitter.
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Re: family problemsIf you're under 25 (which it seems you are), try CAHMS (Children and Adolescents Mental Health Service), may seem like you aren't the one with you problem, but there is such thing as family therapy, and my pyschologist was perfectly happy for me to arrange the meeting without my parents knowing (until they found out)...google CAHMS followed by the name of you borough/unitary authority, and you should find a number...then, cause it's a Saturday and not a wierd time, you should get someone...
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Re: family problems(Original post by dgdlalo16)
hello
yh i thinking of going to school and telling teachers
i have quite literally bruises on my left hand and my arm where i was hit
i really hate my mum and would do anything to get away from her
i feel like dirt or the lowest thing ever and this is how my mum makes me feel
i know i sound like a poor depressed person but this is my reality
i hate my life and with gcse exams being 3 days away i am not sure how i am going to get through itFor your GCSE studies i'd definitely do what murpo's saying or go to a library or stay at school for as long as it's open. But definitely talk to teachers and do as Natalya's saying see a family therapist - your school may have a therapist you can talk to, find out from teachers you trust.(Original post by murpo)
Could you stop at a friends house or would that be impossible
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Re: family problemshello(Original post by Natalya)
Talk to your head of year/form tutor??
i will do that when i go to school
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Re: family problemsi always feel like a victim in my house and want to spend as much time in school possible(Original post by Natalya)
If you're under 25 (which it seems you are), try CAHMS (Children and Adolescents Mental Health Service), may seem like you aren't the one with you problem, but there is such thing as family therapy, and my pyschologist was perfectly happy for me to arrange the meeting without my parents knowing (until they found out)...google CAHMS followed by the name of you borough/unitary authority, and you should find a number...then, cause it's a Saturday and not a wierd time, you should get someone...
i cant wait til im 18 so i can leave this house
